Im'm stuck in the friendzone with a girl. Tried being more sexual, it did not work. Freezing is out of the question because we are on the same class and it's not like I can just ignore her.
I have been trying to keep it on a casual/civil level, acting alpha, ignoring her frequently outside class and giving a few emotional rollercoater rides. Basically I am at a standstill for a few months.
It is basically a cold turkey situation. A girl I would have already nexted if I was not with her everyday.
Today a guest speaker came to our class. We are on an informatics course and she is always chatting with me via a msn like program we have installed on our terminals. The speaker was a guy from a company she wants to work for and apparently she considered him atractive. This is the msn thing conversation:
she: «I'm in love. Can't wait until I work for *company*»
me: «If you want to work for them you should try to "go up the ladder horizontaly", if you know what I mean» trying to act like I don't give a damn.
she: «mmm... Good idea!»
me: «my level of respect for you is like an elevator. Permanently going up and down. Guess wich sub-basment that coment just pot you in» lowering her value...
she: «come on! Don't be like that
»Again, I don't expect much from her, but I can't exactly next her since we spend 6 hours a day together and I am kind of the guy she is closer to in college.
How would you guys have played it? I pondered the option of simply not answering, but I think that would have shown insecurity.