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| Author: | Lumberdog [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 11:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Seducing old class-mates |
There is going to be a party tonight at private pub and my old classmate (girl) invited me there. We will be just a few guys with more women. The problem is, most of the girls are my old class-mates, which means they take me as a friend i guess.. Some of them are really good friends, some are just good friends. My question is how do I seduce a friend?? I can touch them, laugh with them, but they will probably think that I am just joking or being friendly. Are there any good techniques for this?? |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 3:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
Man the only way it looks like to take this to another level with these chicks is to isolate one of them and try talking that way. For me the only technique I have...is to ask: "Hey want to go hang outside for A bit? I need some fresh air" |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 4:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
^ That. You cannot start openly hitting on an old friend in front of other old friends. That is a recipe for getting blown out and hurting yourself not just with her, but everyone else in the group. |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 5:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
I feel you though. It is A recipe to get blown out...but I mean for me at the end of the day I like to make the moves. If it doesn't work then I just find another chick. But thats just how I feel to be honest with you. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 6:15 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
It's just that she is much less likely to even let you pick her up in front of your mutual friends. This puts *tons* of pressure on her. She knows if she hooks up with you in front of everyone, that is probably going to be a very talked about subject, the following day. That can work out, but she has to be cool with it. If she isn't fine with everyone gossiping about it, or say, she has a crush on another guy and worries he'll hear about it and not want her, etc. And it forces her to think of all of that in a few seconds, with everyone watching. If she hasn't secretly had a crush on you the whole time, and she's even slightly sober, this will probably not work. I'm not saying "Don't make a move". I'm saying "Don't make a move in front of everyone". Especially not the initial move. Once she decides she's into it, you may be fine making out in front of everyone and dry humping while dancing. But it is best to put as little unnecessary pressure on her as possible. |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 6:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
Haha. Whatever works for you man. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 2:25 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
i dont see a problem with flirting with her in front of friends.... of course you want to separate her at some point but teasing her a bit in front of people isn't such a bad thing...I'd say flirting with her a lil bit before getting her away from the group would make more sense. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
Quote: i dont see a problem with flirting with her in front of friends.... of course you want to separate her at some point but teasing her a bit in front of people isn't such a bad thing...I'd say flirting with her a lil bit before getting her away from the group would make more sense. I'm talking about statements of intent. Of course you flirt in front of other people. But then again, you flirt with more than one girl. Statements of intent are for one girl at a time, generally speaking.
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 9:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Seducing old class-mates |
Quote: Quote: i dont see a problem with flirting with her in front of friends.... of course you want to separate her at some point but teasing her a bit in front of people isn't such a bad thing...I'd say flirting with her a lil bit before getting her away from the group would make more sense. I'm talking about statements of intent. Of course you flirt in front of other people. But then again, you flirt with more than one girl. Statements of intent are for one girl at a time, generally speaking.Good point there bro. |
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