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Author:  d95095411 [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 7:45 am ]
Post subject:  How should I respond to this "date"?
Me: It will be cool for us to go ice skating after the exams
HB: Why ice skating? Haha besides after my last exam, I have a basketball :) You can watch if you want to
Me: haha not free that day, got tight schedule
MAYB NEXT WEEK?
hB: i'M GONNA BE IN JAPAN THAT TIME
Me: Lol so compliacted
Hb: Yeah


Is this a genuine IOI? Doesnt sound really inviting

Should I go cuz there will be other girls in the basketball team( which are in my school) and its hard to escalate things with her in front of her friends( they might go celebrate and do other shit) Also i mite be the only guy present, shud I bring friends?
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 4:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
I agree with you. She doesn't sound interested.
Author:  n2thevoid [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
How does one "sound" through text?
Author:  Versalis [ Sat Jan 18, 2014 6:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
What happened here:
Guy: I want to date you
Girl: No. You may view me as a fan, however
Guy: No, I want to date you next week
Girl: No. I'm doing something fun next week.

What would interested sound like?
Guy: I want to date you
Girl: That sounds fun! I can't tomorrow, I have to play a basketball game. But I'm free Wednesday afternoon ;)
Author:  d95095411 [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Quote:
What happened here:
Guy: I want to date you
Girl: No. You may view me as a fan, however
Guy: No, I want to date you next week
Girl: No. I'm doing something fun next week.

What would interested sound like?
Guy: I want to date you
Girl: That sounds fun! I can't tomorrow, I have to play a basketball game. But I'm free Wednesday afternoon ;)
Yea fml, do u suggest me to move on and totally forget about her or keep her on my radar?
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:55 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
maybe she doesn't like ice skating???
Author:  xBaByBx [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 4:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Yea fml, do u suggest me to move on and totally forget about her or keep her on my radar?[/quote]

Move on bro, if she's interested she'll come to you. But...if you want her that bad just surround yourself with other girls and make sure she sees you with them. By showing this kind of value to her will spark some interest in you.
Author:  d95095411 [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 4:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Quote:
Yea fml, do u suggest me to move on and totally forget about her or keep her on my radar?
Move on bro, if she's interested she'll come to you. But...if you want her that bad just surround yourself with other girls and make sure she sees you with them. By showing this kind of value to her will spark some interest in you.[/quote]

Lol one guy from school asked the hb how she felt towards me, she said she didn't love me, and didnt want to be in a relationship and says I've been texting with other girls.

I surround myself with girls, but is it able to spark some interest or am I doing it the wrong way ?
The only DHV I done was:
surround by girls
care for friends
self confidence
Author:  d95095411 [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 4:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Quote:
maybe she doesn't like ice skating???
Lol i doubt that, I think she just wasnt interested cuz 3 hours later I texted her I could be able to see the game. Then she said she wasn't sure if the principal allows friends to watch the game( Yes, she called me a friend and it sucks :lol: ) I think its an Iod, trying to avoid me. If she was interested, she will set up another genuine date.( My opinion, just been in the pua community for a month)
Author:  Versalis [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
She's definitely not interested right now.
I rarely rule girls out because of disinterest, just because girls are insanely fickle. I had the same girl go from telling me to fuck off(literally), to coming over to my house to "watch movies"(and fuck) within a week of each other.

In essence, she is not interested now, but who knows in the future? Don't waste energy or time on her, but if an opportunity presents itself, be open to it.
Author:  d95095411 [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 3:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Quote:
She's definitely not interested right now.
I rarely rule girls out because of disinterest, just because girls are insanely fickle. I had the same girl go from telling me to fuck off(literally), to coming over to my house to "watch movies"(and fuck) within a week of each other.

In essence, she is not interested now, but who knows in the future? Don't waste energy or time on her, but if an opportunity presents itself, be open to it.
I'm interested, how do you "turn the tables" and make her interested in a short amount of time? I lack experience in both pua and dating( never been in a relationship), so any guidance? I thank you in advance first for restoring hope in me. :o
Author:  Versalis [ Sun Jan 19, 2014 8:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
I didn't do a single thing. She told me to fuck off, I grinned, shook my head and walked away.
A few days later we were both at the same social gathering, and she sat next to me and started to apologize. I cut her off, told her not to worry about it. We talked for a bit, I invited her to do something a day or two later.
Then that weekend she came over.

I just didn't get get butthurt over the initial rejection. From that point on, I treated her like any other girl.
Author:  d95095411 [ Mon Jan 20, 2014 8:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How should I respond to this "date"?
Quote:
I didn't do a single thing. She told me to fuck off, I grinned, shook my head and walked away.
A few days later we were both at the same social gathering, and she sat next to me and started to apologize. I cut her off, told her not to worry about it. We talked for a bit, I invited her to do something a day or two later.
Then that weekend she came over.

I just didn't get get butthurt over the initial rejection. From that point on, I treated her like any other girl.
Thanks for the tip.... if we do not happen to get in to a same venue, should I wait or be proactive after some time has past.
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