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Author:  cunning_stunt [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  If a girl thinks you only want her for sex - good or bad?
I know we talk alot about building comfort and all sorts of qualifiers etc.. but I have had many situations in my life where I have met girls that I am not that interested in, and made it clear that all I am interested in is sex.

I am met with looks and comments of dissaproval, but strangely - lots of these girls pursue me trying to get me to take them out for a drink. Its madness really.. logic should tell them to look elsewhere.. but then are woman ever logical? :)

Then of course are the situations, where I have tried really hard with dinner, arranging dates and they lose interest.

I know that acting disinterested is a big winner, but it almost seems as though just wanting sex seems to achieve the same thing. It's like the girl thinks you only view her as a sex object and she wants to work for validation as the next thing up.

Does anyone agree with this?.. and do you think that telling an HB8+ you only want sex would work, especially if you have already been blown out?
Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 7:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: If a girl thinks you only want her for sex - good or bad
Quote:
I know we talk alot about building comfort and all sorts of qualifiers etc.. but I have had many situations in my life where I have met girls that I am not that interested in, and made it clear that all I am interested in is sex.

I am met with looks and comments of dissaproval, but strangely - lots of these girls pursue me trying to get me to take them out for a drink. Its madness really.. logic should tell them to look elsewhere.. but then are woman ever logical? :)

Then of course are the situations, where I have tried really hard with dinner, arranging dates and they lose interest.

I know that acting disinterested is a big winner, but it almost seems as though just wanting sex seems to achieve the same thing. It's like the girl thinks you only view her as a sex object and she wants to work for validation as the next thing up.

Does anyone agree with this?.. and do you think that telling an HB8+ you only want sex would work, especially if you have already been blown out?
Ok so I'm going to break it down like this:

You don't want to say it literally. The last girl I fucked I basically portrayed myself as a "player" type. I mean I wouldn't brag about how many girls I slept with but whenever something came up in our natural conversation Id say something like "I'd come here all the time with my ex or my other girl" if we're talking about a place. If you're talking about sex you can talk about previous experiences you've had with other girls. You still build comfort(this just means you get her comfortable with you). You let her get familiar with your touch, your sense of humor(I have a dark, and sometimes inappropriate sense of humor), and just the vibe you put out. Something I learnt throughout game is if you think it's normal she will think it's normal(frame control).

To answer your question: Anything can work! If you somehow portray status, like your the baddest player around and it would make sense to put a fuck with you on her bucket list then she will definitely want to validate herself for just a fuck. That's kinda how it worked with the last girl I fucked.
Author:  Cdharders [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 4:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: If a girl thinks you only want her for sex - good or bad
Nothing wrong with her thinking that. The thing is, at some point she'll want more and break it off or she'll find a guy to screw her better. Be aware time is limited if you want to go down that path.
Author:  Sam0101 [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 4:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: If a girl thinks you only want her for sex - good or bad
You also don't want to lead her on. So you have to make it obvious that you're only interested in sex. It's possible she is trying to change you and make you her boyfriend too. That's always a possibility.
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: If a girl thinks you only want her for sex - good or bad
So let me explain a bit more ..

There is this one girl who I took out a few times and she lost interest in me. Having done some more 'studying' in the world of PUA, I think I was a little too reliable, perhaps following her lead a little and showing too much interest.

So I bump into her now and again and I am thinking about shaking her up a bit to put the balance back in my half. I have quite a cocky cheeky naughty attitude when I'm in good form and quite sexual too.
Of course, when I really like a girl in typical fashion, I lose this.

So when I see her again, I am considering just being sexual with her and giving her the impression that I am just out to bed her, with the hope that it may make her try to qualify herself to me as a potential suitor and not just a sex buddy.

thoughts?
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