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Author:  Tyler13 [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 10:53 am ]
Post subject:  HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Important background Info
This girl and I used to fuck she is the one from my other post. She was a virgin when I met her, she was a psycho or still is one. We had a bad break up because of her paranoid self(she was diagnosed)—I don't want to explain what it was over in too much detail but lets just say she was paranoid of me video taping our relationship. All in all I never did anything to harm her or her image she was overly paranoid and she overreacted resulting in a very ugly breakup that not only harmed my image but the image of my beloved and adored ex with her family. To say the least it was a big mess.

The Situation Now
Today was the first day of winter semester(A ton of potential on the first day already), and there is a chance I may run into her at school. Worst case scenario she is in one or in multiple classes with me. Let it be known!!! I am not worried, just want to be prepared :D

The Potential Problem
What is the best way to interact with her if any to not only protect my image socially, but also maybe to discredit her?(she may spread rumors about me, which is something I am worried about) What sort of mentality should I have? I'm not mad at her, nor am I seeking revenge, I just want to move on.

Author:  prince_prince [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 12:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Well man from what it sounds like. I would just say leave it alone and

find other girls to chill with. There are more fish in the sea. Why sweat

over one man?

Author:  Tyler13 [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 5:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Quote:
Well man from what it sounds like. I would just say leave it alone and

find other girls to chill with. There are more fish in the sea. Why sweat

over one man?
That's the thing dude, I want to leave it alone. I'm talking about if I run into her or if I have her in one of my classes how do I behave towards someone like that? I'm not trying to get with her again, that's not what's on my mind.

Author:  prince_prince [ Tue Jan 14, 2014 8:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Well man in your situation. If you DO run into her.

Don't say anything. But that is just me man.

Author:  HSP [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 3:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

I wouldn't say anything to her, just maybe a light, friendly smile if you happen to run into each other. If she starts talking to you just say, "Hey" in a loud, confident voice, as if she was a new girl you were talking to. Otherwise avoid her.

Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 4:21 am ]
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tell her you forgive her and you apologize for anything you've wronged her. It'll get it off your chest and maybe even allow her to forgive and forget. if not just ignore her. If she spreads nasty rumors be above it... if you stay above that bullshit you'll prevail... the ppl being told the rumors will just see how petty she is

Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 11:46 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

I think you should behave in the moment and not think about it so much.

If something happens, it happens. What are you gonna do? Go nuts planning out every situation possible?

If she acts like you don't exist, act like she doesn't exist. If you pass by and make eye contact, say hello. Seriously man, don't over think it. Act when you need to act. You'll be happier that way :)

Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 6:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

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I wouldn't say anything to her, just maybe a light, friendly smile if you happen to run into each other. If she starts talking to you just say, "Hey" in a loud, confident voice, as if she was a new girl you were talking to. Otherwise avoid her.
I like this one! If she gets too friendly I'd blow her off cuz she needs to apologize if she ever wants to be friends. None the less I'm not trippin.

Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 6:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

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tell her you forgive her and you apologize for anything you've wronged her. It'll get it off your chest and maybe even allow her to forgive and forget. if not just ignore her. If she spreads nasty rumors be above it... if you stay above that bullshit you'll prevail... the ppl being told the rumors will just see how petty she is
This sounds Ideal. My friend told me this part about the rumors and I believe it.

Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Jan 15, 2014 6:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Quote:
I think you should behave in the moment and not think about it so much.

If something happens, it happens. What are you gonna do? Go nuts planning out every situation possible?

If she acts like you don't exist, act like she doesn't exist. If you pass by and make eye contact, say hello. Seriously man, don't over think it. Act when you need to act. You'll be happier that way :)
Thanks man, I know and I'm not trippin. I just wanted an outsider's opinion.

Author:  Cdharders [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 4:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

Never talk about her. Never talk ill of her. Never qualify about the situation.

If you see her, smile, say "Hi," leave it at that.

Author:  Tyler13 [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 9:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

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Never talk about her. Never talk ill of her. Never qualify about the situation.

If you see her, smile, say "Hi," leave it at that.
Yea I figured. Thanks

Author:  prince_prince [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 8:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

I hope you found the answers to what you were looking for man.

Author:  TheEroticJester [ Thu Jan 16, 2014 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

When I'm meeting someone I'm in a fight with and pass them just walk past them and smile or even laugh with a wink just to make them mad, but that's just me

Author:  prince_prince [ Fri Jan 17, 2014 8:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HOW DO I BEHAVE in this situation?

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When I'm meeting someone I'm in a fight with and pass them just walk past them and smile or even laugh with a wink just to make them mad, but that's just me



Haha dude that sounds interesting. I am going to have to use that now!

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