PUA Forum :: Can you create atraction when there was none to start with?

I know PUA is about getting girls fast, easy, and moving on. But with time is it possible to create atraction when there was none or very little at first?

I mean, sure, you can act all confident, wear the right clothes, the right cologne, and be attractive from the start, but if by the time you meet the girl you are not there yet (I'm a noob) or if she is not atracted to you at first (wrong first impression, she has a bf, you are not her tipe, whatever) can you still turn it around and spark atraction? And if so, how would you do that? Especially if you are around said girl a lot (neighbour), I mean, can you kinda "grow on her" by acting like a gentleman, being there for her, or what?

I ask this because, more than once, I felt no atraction or very little atraction the first time I met a girl, but with time I started to see her diferently and ended up liking her, a lot. It was kinda the more I found out about her the more I liked what I saw.

So, is it possible?

Author:	TheFrenchConnection [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 6:54 pm ]
Post subject:	Can you create atraction when there was none to start with?
I know PUA is about getting girls fast, easy, and moving on. But with time is it possible to create atraction when there was none or very little at first? I mean, sure, you can act all confident, wear the right clothes, the right cologne, and be attractive from the start, but if by the time you meet the girl you are not there yet (I'm a noob) or if she is not atracted to you at first (wrong first impression, she has a bf, you are not her tipe, whatever) can you still turn it around and spark atraction? And if so, how would you do that? Especially if you are around said girl a lot (neighbour), I mean, can you kinda "grow on her" by acting like a gentleman, being there for her, or what? I ask this because, more than once, I felt no atraction or very little atraction the first time I met a girl, but with time I started to see her diferently and ended up liking her, a lot. It was kinda the more I found out about her the more I liked what I saw. So, is it possible?

Author:	Clocks [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 7:02 pm ]
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I'm a noob so not much advice to offer, but making her laugh can create attraction... there's a lot of talk on these boards and in the pua material about it, including kino escalating (physical touch) and other things

Author:	anthonypham [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 8:25 pm ]
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Quote: I know PUA is about getting girls fast, easy, and moving on. But with time is it possible to create atraction when there was none or very little at first? I mean, sure, you can act all confident, wear the right clothes, the right cologne, and be attractive from the start, but if by the time you meet the girl you are not there yet (I'm a noob) or if she is not atracted to you at first (wrong first impression, she has a bf, you are not her tipe, whatever) can you still turn it around and spark atraction? And if so, how would you do that? Especially if you are around said girl a lot (neighbour), I mean, can you kinda "grow on her" by acting like a gentleman, being there for her, or what? I ask this because, more than once, I felt no atraction or very little atraction the first time I met a girl, but with time I started to see her diferently and ended up liking her, a lot. It was kinda the more I found out about her the more I liked what I saw. So, is it possible? yes! This is of course possible. Unless you are in the friendzone,then it is still possilbe (will take more time and effort)

Author:	TheFrenchConnection [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 3:55 pm ]
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So it's basically running my normal game, only slower so she gets used to the change. A kind of "killing an elephant with bug bites" kind of thing?

Author:	GamesSN [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 7:40 pm ]
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Yeah, it's more than possible. You can spike interest/attraction by showing a high amount of interest then going completely cold on her and switching to another girl. If you're in a group and your target is the leader of the group pay her little to no attention and go for one of her friends, not the lowest value girl but the girl next up from the top. This spikes interest "Why isn't he talking to me?" and mystery. Interest essentially translates into attraction and mystery amplifies that. Put it this way: Have you ever had it where you knew you could have a girl but weren't really bothered by her then she started paying attention to another person and not you? You started getting jealous, you started to become more attracted to her and wanted her attention. The same applies to women. This is what you generally do when you meet a group of girls. It's different if the woman is the hottest there and clearly the leader of the group. Pay her little attention and give her off handed remarks, keeping attention on you. You just need to be able to hold a conversation, keep it interesting and hold attention then gradually switch attention to the leader of the group showing interest piece by piece. Make her work for it from that point on.

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Author:	MarylandsFinest [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 10:34 pm ]
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Sure you can. Use storytelling to your advantage by inputting DHV's about yourself which will peak her interest in you. Jealousy plots are always useful as well if you are in a group. Give one of the other girls more attention for a bit, while deliberately cutting off target girl/not pay attention to her, then come back to her. Social proof yourself. Have women in you social circle, this will attract other women esp. when you go out. Gotta use the guppies to catch the barracudas.

Author:	Sam0101 [ Thu Jan 09, 2014 11:05 pm ]
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It is possible to get a girl who doesn't like you right away or in a brief time. I've met a few women in my day who've been on my radar and who didn't really like me, but once I showed them who I was, they started to take interest.

Author:	abdominablesnowman [ Sun Jan 12, 2014 7:41 pm ]
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I would say it is possible. I was friends with a girl for a while and we would often go out and do stuff as friends, she was really hot and knew it. You know the type. I started to become more interested in her and so whenever we were out I would treat other hot girls we ran into completely different to her. Whether it be talking smoothly or flirting with waitresses or sales assistants or smiling at hot girls in the street. She would notice and wonder why I was never treating her this way. And one night when we were out in a group and going to a few bars I made a couple of subtle but nice comments about her appearance that caught her off guard and our relationship took on a different edge after that and I started seeing her for a while. Nothing much came of it though. But a girl's opinion will change of you when she suddenly notices that you are good at flirting with girls you come across.

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