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| Author: | itisme [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 3:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Should I congratulate her ...plus: further steps? |
Hey guys, this has been the story so far: so-let-us-be-friends-vt173889.html [Content of that link in a nutshell: everything seemed fine between us, we cuddled and everything, but when I tried to kiss her, she backed off and told me that we could be friends... no kino since then] So we saw each other briefly at work today, all went smooth, no hard feelings. I initially planned to totally freeze her out (if that meant never seeing her again - so be it). But then I watched Californication, and I noticed that Hank Moody is never really mad at women or "punishes" them... ...which got me confused. ------------- So, I know that she's accomplished a major achievement in her life today, should I congratulate her on that? Wouldn't that convey high value, in a sense of "I can handle the things you're throwing at me, you won't get me to lose my composure"? Honestly, if you tell me to leave it, totally freeze her out and move on, that is totally ok with me. I am really interested in your opinions, I am not looking for comfort. Cheers, me. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 4:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I congratulate her ...plus: further steps? |
Sure man what I would do is if I saw her in passing say congrats maybe a have a little convo and carry on my way. I wouldn't go overboard sending a card or anything. Just a simple congrats with no ulterior motives would be good. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Jan 08, 2014 1:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Should I congratulate her ...plus: further steps? |
if you see her by all means congratulate her.... you don't need to have ill feelings. But don't give her your full focus... don't pursue her.... until she shows some interest in you. |
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