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Author:  Lumberdog [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Got rejected after 3rd time with her..
I was making out 3 times with this girl different nights and for the 4th time i got rejected.
We did not set up dates or something, we have just met outside and had some fun. We kept this our thing in secret, so I dont know what happend. I dont think I acted needy, maybe just a little bit. For the first 3 times it went pretty smoothly, but the 4th time we went home from the pub. There were 4 of us ( me,girl and two guys that wanted to walk the lady home) I live really close to her, so we have the same way. The 2 guys lived totally different directions ( i was like DAMN:D). When that two guys were talking to each other i quietly offered her that we will go to my place for a minute (she knew that I dont just want to fuck her, well i do but i also like her) and then I will walk her alone. She said no..
Then we just said bye and that was it..
Next day we were at the same place for a second. I have little bit ignored her, I dont know if she noticed.
The problem is I dont know what is she thinking about me now.. I have no idea ( we have never talked about these stuff ) What would you guys recommend me? Thanks
Author:  hugge [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got rejected after 3rd time with her..
You could start by talking to her.

I can only guess what went wrong, but I assume you are lacking some... What's the word? Pondus? Being out with this girl three nights, kissing her and everything, but still not taking it anywhere. That's your issue here I think. You need to escalate, and in order to do that you need to be determined and confident, know what you want and just go for it! A little bit more alpha-male, so to say.

When you say that you "don't just want to fuck her" you give me the vibe of someone who will be friend-zoned very soon. Or just rejected. I'm sorry to say that. Embrace your sexuality and "let the beast out". Imagine yourself standing really close to this girl looking her into her eye, horny as hell, breathing heavily as if you are just about to eat her up for dinner... But you hold back, able to wait a little longer for the good stuff, and she can see how you struggle, which turns her on. That's the mood you should try to create next time you meet a girl. ;)
Author:  bngbang [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 8:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got rejected after 3rd time with her..
im new here,and just started to learn,but to me it seems those douches cockblocked you.
Author:  Lumberdog [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got rejected after 3rd time with her..
Quote:
You could start by talking to her.

I can only guess what went wrong, but I assume you are lacking some... What's the word? Pondus? Being out with this girl three nights, kissing her and everything, but still not taking it anywhere. That's your issue here I think. You need to escalate, and in order to do that you need to be determined and confident, know what you want and just go for it! A little bit more alpha-male, so to say.

When you say that you "don't just want to fuck her" you give me the vibe of someone who will be friend-zoned very soon. Or just rejected. I'm sorry to say that. Embrace your sexuality and "let the beast out". Imagine yourself standing really close to this girl looking her into her eye, horny as hell, breathing heavily as if you are just about to eat her up for dinner... But you hold back, able to wait a little longer for the good stuff, and she can see how you struggle, which turns her on. That's the mood you should try to create next time you meet a girl. ;)
Yes, I may be a little scared, but there was no opportunity for sex. For the first time there was her friend. For the second time we had no time, because her mom was rushing her to go home and for the third time there was this needy guy which kept sticking to her.. I would take it further if i could.
Author:  In$tinct [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 9:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got rejected after 3rd time with her..
Hey mate. There is no excuse you didn't take it further if you really wanted it four times in a row. It is the man's job to do the logistics, not the woman's. Well sometimes, when they want you to bang them really badly they would do it for you, or with your girlfriend/FB it is a different scenario, but when you are picking up the girl, you just have to make sure that there's going to be an opportunity for sex. Next time/with another girl, make it 200% sure that you will be able to isolate and fuck the girl.

Peace,

In$tinct
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