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Author:  LongSimple [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 5:43 am ]
Post subject:  Help!!!
Umm hopefully I posted this in the right place...

So there is an amazingly looking HB10 at my college I think she is attracted to me but I am not quite sure... Here are my observations:

1. She drops a lot of IOIs to me but not many to others
2. She has a boyfriend who she seems to like a lot.
3. Her boyfriend cheated on her in front of her, he then froze her out and got back together with her a week later.
4. She has laughed at a lot of jokes I have made that are not funny.
5. I saw her on the street one day with her boyfriend and was about to walk past without saying anything (Bad choice right?) but she stopped me said hi and began to talk about DHVs I had shown to her boyfriend.
6. She seems shy around me.
7. She is 2 years older than me.

I am confused :) What are your opinions? What should I do?
Author:  hugge [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 9:14 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help!!!
From what you describe, it seems as if she is attracted to you but not confident enough to take it anywhere. She is not happy with her boyfriend, but sticks with him until she finds something better. Just like you, she is probably confused and doesn't know whether you are interested in her. My guess is that you need to be a little bit more obvious and give her more IOIs. Ambiguity and playing hard-to-get can be your enemy in this case. I would recommend that you ask her out on a date, plain and simple.
Author:  Xoved [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 9:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help!!!
If you never go for it, you'll never know the answer.

These are definitely interest indicators. As the guy above said, she will stick to her boyfriend until she finds someone who will treat her better. Many guys are probably after her but are afraid to make a move, so be unique and do so. Don't be afraid to take her out as a friend first and then work on escalating after 2 dates or so. That's what I personally did to a girl who was in a relationship with a guy for around a year who was treating her so badly, yet she was sticking to him. Ended up having a relationship with her for 5 months, and we still talk as friends after we ended it.

Overall, go for it.
Author:  soulmonkey [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 10:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help!!!
Both above posters are correct, but to clarify, you need to be obvious to her!

Turn the conversation sexual, or just straight up ask, "so when are you finally going to ask me out?" (cocky/funny). If you aren't in the friend zone, you soon will be (unless you do something about it). Make an obvious move, before it's too late!
Author:  LongSimple [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 5:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help!!!
Quote:
If you never go for it, you'll never know the answer.

These are definitely interest indicators. As the guy above said, she will stick to her boyfriend until she finds someone who will treat her better. Many guys are probably after her but are afraid to make a move, so be unique and do so. Don't be afraid to take her out as a friend first and then work on escalating after 2 dates or so. That's what I personally did to a girl who was in a relationship with a guy for around a year who was treating her so badly, yet she was sticking to him. Ended up having a relationship with her for 5 months, and we still talk as friends after we ended it.

Overall, go for it.
K thanks guys
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