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| Author: | jimbob857 [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 4:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Back with her ex - advise |
Slept with a HB9 last week. Lasted all night and we both got quite attached, texting every day for the last week. She's away for the break. Two days ago I get a text all the sudden saying its over. Today I found out it's because she's back with her ex, who she broke up with three weeks ago. What do I do in this situation? Play it cool or keep advancing? From what I know the guy seems pretty controlling. Or is this a lost cause? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 5:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
What should you do? Wish her the best. Her new relationship is none of your business if she says that it's over between the two of you. All you can do is respect her personal choice. Shouldn't really matter to you in the first place, anyway. You've got tons of other women to meet all the time. |
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| Author: | jimbob857 [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 2:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
Yeah I know that seems like the best thing to do, but the shift seemed so drastic that I was thinking maybe I should pursue it casually - like see if she wants to hang out another time, and then try to escalate from there. Or is the best strategy here, even if I wanted to get her back, to simply ignore her? |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 2:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
if shes back with the ex then theres nothing you can do if you wait around you'll just seem needy, wish them well and just move on with your life, at least youll maintain some dignity and self respect |
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| Author: | boomer415 [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 3:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
The fact that she was with him three weeks ago and jumped in with you last week, seems like a rebound. In that situation, since she did go back, keep your distance. HOWEVER, did you text her yet? What did you text? It's easy to want to text "keep my number, if it doesn't work out" but you'd be putting yourself out there. I have three sisters, every now and again one of them gets a text from an ex "hey, just wanted to see how your doing" and she loses it. Keep your distance, hit her with a text every once in a while " thought about you, just wanted to say hi" nothing too needy. And when she texts back, "hey, how are you" take awhile to text back and when you do "I'm good, talk soon". Good luck man. |
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| Author: | jimbob857 [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 9:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
Thanks guys. She just texted saying "I'm sorry, it's over. Goodbye." Or something to that effect. So I called her and asked what was going on, which was when I found out about her ex, which she never mentioned before. I may have acted a bit like a bitch, but not overly so (I hope). I didn't write anything embarrassing anyway. I just asked her to be sure she was making the right decision, and that she wouldn't get another chance with me. The weird thing is that up until two days ago, she was texting me every day, making all these future plans. Bizarre. Can't let myself get that wrapped up again. Don't know whether to blame myself or her. |
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| Author: | odyn [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 10:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
Don't blame anyone, just move on and be done with it. Don't ever contact her again, but if you see her out just say hi and move on. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 4:43 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
Your responses clearly indicate that you do not have any other women in your rotation. This is what you should be blaming yourself for. If you were flirting with/sleeping with at least a few other women, you wouldn't be worried like this and you wouldn't be talking like this. Go out and get abundance. |
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| Author: | jimbob857 [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 5:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
That's not true man. I have a couple others in rotation. I just liked this one a lot. |
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| Author: | jimbob857 [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 8:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
UPDATE: Texted this girl the other day after cutting total contact. Suggested a meet up and she came over. Turns out she broke up with the BF. I sealed the deal and am seeing her off and on, with the advantage of a bigger rotation. |
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| Author: | blackpill [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
HA-HAAA!!! BALLIN!!! Man I was going to say you were texting her everyday which is your major mistake. I just went through almost the exact thing with a girl that "Like a lot" (no joke) that I was texting "like every day" and I went through a similar thing and I have another girl that I dont text that often but is a for sure lay. ....you can guess which one doesnt contact me anymore. BASICALLY what I'm getting at is keep the texting down brehhhhh! Its cool to be authentic and "be you" but if you overdo it your chances of losing her increase. make sure your frame stays where she is chasing you and you are the higher value. Ya know, what is she doing that makes her worthy of your presence? Make sure you hypnotize that chick too man. When you're having sex make her say "I'm your slut", "this pussy belongs to you" blah blah ya know? that shit has worked pretty well for me since going red pill in november. But congrats on getting her back mane! |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sun Feb 16, 2014 2:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Back with her ex - advise |
Keep it cool bro. You already got the "P" start other projects man just look at this as A successful lesson and move on bro! |
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