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| Author: | bartm [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 12:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | why are women disgusted at sexual compliments? |
Hi This might make me sound like a complete AFC, but please don't judge. why are women so disgusted by sexual compliments (or are they?) today I walked up to a MILF and said "excuse me. I just wanted to let you know you have a perfect ass. It looks so amazing" Then she says "that's disgusting. get away from me before I punch you in the face" I have done this to another MILF before, and she said "gee, thanks, I had a hard day at work, that makes me feel better" I dont have enough samples to conclude what reaction is more typical. If I did this over and over, which reaction would I get the most? if the answer is "disgusted", why are women so disgusted by this? if someone told me "you have a nice ass" I would say "thanks" and maybe hug them for the nice compliment? |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 12:57 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why are women disgusted at sexual compliments? |
I often compliment women on their asses. But only after I've talked to them for a bit. Randomly saying "Nice ass!" to women is going to get you some bad replies. It's also not a very effective opener, unless you're mighty good looking. |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 8:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why are women disgusted at sexual compliments? |
Something called "social scripts." It is expected of women to show disgust in sexual things because it's a man's world and the patriarchy made it so that a woman's sexuality is something to be commodified like a rare valuable. Some women have freed themselves from this prude, conservative bullshit, just as PUAs have freed themselves from bullshit mindsets like "Women who have sex are sluts." |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 9:13 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: why are women disgusted at sexual compliments? |
i think chief is right its about social perception if you make a sexual comment in front of her friends and she reacts badly its usually because she doesnt want to be perceived as a slut, she probably is having mental images of her parents saying to her 'youre a slut'. to save face and not be perceived as a slut she'll act surprised and disgusted by it. the other thing is what you actually say, unfortunately when you say to a guy who is not tactful or unsure 'talk about sex' you have a recipe for disaster...... saying anything along the lines of: 'nice tits' 'i want to plough you' 'lets just fuck' yes its brave but its ultra creepy. |
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