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Author:  IaintPerfect [ Thu Jan 02, 2014 9:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
Hi guys. I wish u a great new year.

I'm extremely new to the PUA thing. I know there is a lot still to be learnt. However, I feel like I am doing really well. Anyway

Straight to the point.
I met this hb8 at university two months ago. I applied a bunch of PUA techniques on her, cube, push=pull, negs.. I took her out a number of times and always treat her like a real gentleman.

I can tell she is quite into me, we had an amazing Christmas holiday recently and unforgettable sexual experience.

The interesting part.
She has got a bf abroad... she was quite honest with me and told me that I am the second person she has ever kissed, meaning that Im the second guys she has ever slept with. Since I met has she has always been giving me a green light for whatever I do. I simply wanted to sleep with her at first, but guys this young woman is so intelligent and hard-working. She does amazingly well at exams, assignments ect. She told me some things about her personal life, including her relationship.
I always try to avoid speaking with her about her BF, cuz she's obviously cheating on him with me. However, we had a chat and she told me that her BF has got some sort of medical condition, his heart rate is quite slow, and her family do no allow her to be with him ( this is 7 years relationship). I told her that I assume that her bf is amazing, caring, someone who treats her like a little princess and is willing to do everything for her ( Boyfriend destroyer routine 'Straw man' ... a bit cheeky I know.. )

You see, I am pretty sure that by telling me all the things about her personal life, she is giving me some sort of another green light. I'm extremely sure that she isn't happy with her life back home and her rather in my opinion boring relationship.
I want to be with her, I know I can make her stay with me. So she can find a good job and have a stable relationship with me )
But yet, based on what I have read on the forum, 'cheaters are not good partners' fair enough, but don't u think that things are different, 24 years old girl - having only 1 partner during entire life.

Questions
1)What r ur thoughts guys , I might sound a bit in-love, bit I am still trying to think logically and I feel like she is the one who can complete me.

2)How can I hold the attraction, ( she is so into me SPAM) I always act like I am the prize

3) Do u think someone who cheats can be a reliable partner

4) WHat's next.
Author:  Versalis [ Thu Jan 02, 2014 9:55 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
Stop trying to possess women.
Will she find some guy other than you?
Probably so!
And guess what? You're going to find another woman!

That's how being in your early 20s works. Have fun with this girl. Accept that you have what you have with her. Enjoy yourself with her and what you two have. Do not try to scheme out a way to make this a Disney "lived happily ever after" romance. And if you *must* ask for this advise, don't do it here. Ask some middle aged people who are happily married(good luck finding them).
Author:  IaintPerfect [ Thu Jan 02, 2014 11:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
Quote:
Stop trying to possess women.
Will she find some guy other than you?
Probably so!
And guess what? You're going to find another woman!

That's how being in your early 20s works. Have fun with this girl. Accept that you have what you have with her. Enjoy yourself with her and what you two have. Do not try to scheme out a way to make this a Disney "lived happily ever after" romance. And if you *must* ask for this advise, don't do it here. Ask some middle aged people who are happily married(good luck finding them).
So u r telling me that u dont want to be in a relationship till u get 30 , and when ur kids are 10 u will be 40 ?
That doesn't make sense. I have asked quite different questions.
Author:  Versalis [ Fri Jan 03, 2014 1:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
You've asked me how to convert this into a Disney romance. My answer is this: The real world doesn't work this way.

There is no woman who can "complete you" as you said. You have to be complete all on your own. A woman can make a great partner if you find the right one... for a time. But consider how much you've changed in the past five years. Your girlfriend has changed just as much. Consider that you will go through another TEN such spans in the course of your life. Would you five years ago have been perfect for her five years ago? That is a lot of change and the odds that both of you grow in all the same ways is slim.

You can get married at 25 and have a shit marriage and generally unfun life. That's what %90 of marriages end up like. Consider how many people you know that are actually "happily married". I know ONE such couple that's been together for more than ten years. It's extremely rare, because lifelong relationships are very unlikely to work out well.

I would prefer to be over 40 when I have my first child ;)
Youth is too fun to squander it on raising children.
Author:  WGY [ Fri Jan 03, 2014 2:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
Quote:
Stop trying to possess women.
Will she find some guy other than you?
Probably so!
And guess what? You're going to find another woman!

That's how being in your early 20s works. Have fun with this girl. Accept that you have what you have with her. Enjoy yourself with her and what you two have. Do not try to scheme out a way to make this a Disney "lived happily ever after" romance. And if you *must* ask for this advise, don't do it here. Ask some middle aged people who are happily married(good luck finding them).
Ya don't even _have_ to ask. Here it is. Listen to Versalis. I will tell you to fuck off if you call me middle age, but I am 50, so ... well. Anyhow, V is right. Life ain't fair and these days women are bat-shit crazy. Live with it. Have fun. I am dammit. 50. Fuck off. Age is for pussies. I'm having fun and you should too.

And V is right here. You ain't gonna find and happily married 'old farts'. WE don't exist. We're a figment of 50s TV.

There. My rant is over. Actually I hope I was more inspiration than irritation.
Author:  IaintPerfect [ Fri Jan 03, 2014 6:57 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Have I found what I want. I need advice. Next step ?
WGY Thanks for ur response.
I just noticed ur signiture mentioning something about Chinese girls.
In fact, the girl I am dating is Chinese. I feel like these girls are different and can give u everything.
Don't u think that a traditional Chinese girls can be the ideal partner.
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