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| Author: | wickedking [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 5:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
Hi all, I am 15 year old, I live in Bulgaria, Europe. I have a girlfriend. We are together for 1 month already. Two days ago we were talking in SPAM. It was a conference call. She, 2 nice classmates(boys) and I. She told them they are handsome, compared to the last year. I felt a bit sad because she is with me but compliment other guys. Yester we were out and she acted as if she is not interested in me. Any advice how to act when she compliment other guys? |
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| Author: | Phi1ander [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 8:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
Sure this is a test - and you should not respond to it. The ONLY way out is to make yourself attractive by picking up other girls. You don't necessarily need to kc or fc them, just flirt with them and make sure it is in a playful manner - then your girlfriend will notice. Don't argue with her on a logical level or complain and neither do ignore. Good luck! |
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| Author: | wickedking [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 9:02 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
So I should just flirt with other girls? |
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| Author: | neo87 [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 9:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
Not a test. Sounds like she doesn't like you that much. She complimented two guys; don't know from what you wrote if it was flirting or just a genuine compliment. But if you say you went out and she acted uninterested, it sounds like she doesn't like you that much. Can you do better than her, meaning, could you get a better gf than her? If yes, find one if she continues acting uninterested. If no, then she knows it and no amount of other girls is going to save the rs long term. |
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| Author: | Phi1ander [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 9:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
Yes - and just flirt, do nothing she could argue about (kissing) etc. You are doing the same as she did, but do NOT talk about it, don't justify "you did it, too". If she minds, say "but I like ... , she's a really nice girls, it's fun being with her and we're just friends - you don't need to be jealous". Of course she will be - and that's exactly where you want to have her. She will not compliment the other guys any more. But make sure you still are nice to her and kissing - don't SHOW that you are making her jealous (that would be revenge and a sign of weakness), just have fun with other girls, it's also a good training. YOU are the boss and Mr. Sociable, who's also so cool and confident that you have no problem when your girlfriend compliments others. Of course, IF she does more than that (kissing, f...), I would tell her in a calm and unemotional manner that you have certain values of trust and faith she obviously cannot match up to, and dump her. |
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| Author: | Versalis [ Tue Dec 31, 2013 12:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Testing or she just want to make me feel sad ? |
Do you find other women attractive, still? She still finds other men attractive. There is nothing wrong with her flirting with other guys. Revenge flirting is stupid. Should you be flirting with other girls? Yes! But only because you want to. Not to teach her a lesson or something childish like that. |
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