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Author:  Universe0 [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 12:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
Hey guys,

i have broke up with my ex 6 months ago and also i suffered a severe case of one-itis :?

After i went NC for about 5 months i thought i had forget her until yesterday that i met her again..
I spoke briefly to her and she was rude and was showing lots of IOD's.

But then she was talking to her new boyfriend with this sparkle in her eyes and it ripped my heart... :evil:

Of course i dont want her back i just need to forget her.
Anyway, i want to know how i must react the next time i see them.

I am hoping for some good advice!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 2:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
Quote:
Hey guys,

i have broke up with my ex 6 months ago and also i suffered a severe case of one-itis :?

After i went NC for about 5 months i thought i had forget her until yesterday that i met her again..
I spoke briefly to her and she was rude and was showing lots of IOD's.

But then she was talking to her new boyfriend with this sparkle in her eyes and it ripped my heart... :evil:

Of course i dont want her back i just need to forget her.
Anyway, i want to know how i must react the next time i see them.

I am hoping for some good advice!
Just steer clear.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 5:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
do you have to see them????

I'd erase them from your life completely... fuck them.

and date new women to get this oneitus out of your system
Author:  Universe0 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:06 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
Unfortunately i leave in a very small place and it is inevitable not to run into them.
So it is difficult to avoid any meeting..
Author:  Stankwagon [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:36 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
In the words of the most godly PUA to ever grace this world ( ME!) " FUCK AS MANY BITCHES AS POSSIBLE!" The best way to erase something is to overwrite it with new information. I would suggest as a preventative measure to avoid " falling " for girls from here on out. Have fun with them, do what you go to do but steer clear! Falling in love doesn't bring happiness...freedom does!


P.S for a quick fix...pay a hooker to eat your asshole out...that always makes me feel better when im down in the dumps...oh and..THE UGLIER THE BETTER!
Author:  Xoved [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 11:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
If I was in your place, I'd just say "Hi" and continue walking. If she tries to stop me and opens up a conversation, I'd just tell her that I have to run because I'm too busy. It's not that hard at all. I see steering away as a weak method, but that's just my opinion. This is mainly because it shows how mad you are. The only exception for steering away for me is if our eyes didn't meet, but if they did I'd just smile/wink/say hi and just move on.
Author:  Universe0 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 12:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
Thanks for the advice. I also believe that steering away in not a good option.
Fuck them, i will continue as normal like they were not even there.
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 1:48 pm ]
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Brother I know 1st hand how hard that can be! This may be a dumb example, but have you ever seen the movie Yes man with Jim Carey? That is how you get over oneitis obviously you don't have To go to the extremes he went to in the movie or you can whatever you chose. I'm speaking from experience I had the worst case case of oneitis I was so tore up over it that I couldnt eat or I'd be sick I went out myself with a group of about 6 other girls any one of which I could have had that night, but I pussied out and went home early. Then I met a new girl and said fuck it when we go out I do it like that movie. I took her zip lining and salsa dancing for our 1st date. There was 2 benefits to that it was good for me to say fuck it get out there and do crazy fun shit and it totally blew her away. She said and I quote wow you're not like any other guy I've dated before!! That really got me over my oneitis.

That may have got off topic a bit, but I hope that story in general helps you. I know how shitty that is, but just keep moving forward brother!! And if you want check that movie out they say you find inspiration in strange places. Well that's where I found mine.
Author:  Ashx88 [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 2:28 am ]
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At first it feels weird, but avoiding them will make your more uncomfortable. Over time it gradually fades. I have no problem talking of her sex life with my ex now.
I simply avoided her for a few month, until she came and talked to me again. Have the upperhand, but acceptance is key. And it gradually gets better.
She is your ex, someone you shared a past with, no reason to hate.
Author:  Spax [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 3:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
You want my aggressive advice? hahaha.. here is my advice what to do when you met her with her new bf again (assuming if you walking alone).

You suddenly bump up to her with her new bf and you say this to her first:
"Hye there! I can't believe we see each other again, watsup!"

when u say this, u shake her hand and then her bf hand.

And when she response, you then focus your attention on her BF and have manly chat for a while. You can also say to him "I see you have a good catch there huh". While you have a mainly chat with that guy, you smile and say hye to almost any cute girl that pass by. And when the time come that u wanna leave, u just say "okey, see u two around" while approaching another cute girls.

There.. ha ha ha

what it did here is it communicate DHV to you Ex. What better way to revenge than to tell her subtly that "too bad you just dump me, a great guy who are not threaten by the guy that replace me. I feel great nowadays now that i am not with you. Take a look! i care less if he is with you and more, there is plenty of new girl around this town."
Author:  oceanx [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 2:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
I agree with the general attitude described in the last post. You want to give off the vibe that your life is so much better now that you aren't with this girl. "Faking it until you make it" comes into play here. Sure it doesn't matter what she or her b/f think of you, but it does matter what you think of you. Doing this can help you develop an overall more positive and productive mindstate, allowing you to meet more women and enjoy life more.
Author:  Universe0 [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 10:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
I just met them today but i confronted them with a happy attitude! I was laughing and smilling and i didnt care if they were there!
Did it worked??
Oh boy, my ex looked at me with the face:"What the fuck is wrong with you, i am with my new bf and it doesn't bother you at all???" :lol:

Sure it fell good to be in such a good vibe showing that it's hers loss, not mine!!

And again thx brothers for the advices!
Author:  LeoTheory [ Mon Dec 30, 2013 10:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
I feel abit of jealously coming over me with you managing to do that to your ex's face Universe0.
I broke up with my ex 3 months ago and feel sorry for the next poor sod that has to put up with her, just hope it isnt any of you guys ha.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Just met my ex with her new boyfriend. Advice needed
Never get jealous when you see your ex with someone else, because our parents taught us to give our used toys to the less fortunate.
Author:  n00bpua123 [ Tue Dec 31, 2013 1:45 pm ]
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Quote:
I just met them today but i confronted them with a happy attitude! I was laughing and smilling and i didnt care if they were there!
Did it worked??
Oh boy, my ex looked at me with the face:"What the fuck is wrong with you, i am with my new bf and it doesn't bother you at all???" :lol:

Sure it fell good to be in such a good vibe showing that it's hers loss, not mine!!

And again thx brothers for the advices!
Perfect! It's always best to accept your reality, deal with it and make the best of it.
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