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Author:  notepad [ Wed Dec 25, 2013 9:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Weird question ahead. I have an opportunity to fuck an HB4 with nice boobs but nothing more. I'm 19, she's 2X (won't tell me, but my guess is 22-25). It's complicated so I'll just say what happened yesterday from midnight to about 4 am. We sat in her car in a parking lot and talked, cuddled, tons of touching and the tension was high. She taught me how to kind of tickle her hand and did it to me as well. My soldier was up and it was obvious through the jeens, but I couldn't care less (in fact, I liked that she could see it). So my hand was near my lap, and she ticked it, occasionally giving the slighest 'accidental' touch of my buddy with her hand. She kept saying stuff like "it's REALLY REALLY COLD here". However, I didn't escalate it in to anything more than that because of one simple reason.
I had to take a huge dump :lol:. I tried delaying it as much as possible (and I obviously didn't fart), but it came to a point where I had a really nasty stomach ache, up to when I told her it was really fun and that I need to head home. She said that we should do it again some time, and I told her we would.

It took me a while to get comfortable with her because I'm a virgin :roll:. And I've actually never even kissed a girl before :P. Nothing unique, just never got the chance because of some misfortunate happenings in my youth.

My thoughts are thus: I'm not sure if she's 'worthy' of being my first guest. I am also not sure if such a title should exist. I don't plan on anything else than fucking her. I'm just a little worried that I'll regret having my first sex with a random chick who both isn't hot and isn't going to be my girlfriend. So should I 'keep myself' for 'the right one', or does it really not matter?

Any insights?
Author:  Jason. [ Wed Dec 25, 2013 11:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
i've actually experienced in that subject, and i can only tell you that on the one hand, if you do fuck her, you WILL gain experience and be more confortable the next time you have the chance to be with a girl.
on the other hand fucking someone you don't feel attraction for fucks up your self-esteem. you do feel cheap and lame afterwards at least in my experience, i lost my virginity to a 31 year old colombian tourist in the stairs of the apartment of her friends place where she was staying, and although its a hilarious anecdote i did fill like shit the day after.
it does go away and you do take the fucking heavy ass burden of being a virgin off your back, though.

i only know if i had to choose again between loosing my virginity to her or staying a virgin being that i was 18 or 19 at the time, and that was already fucking up my self-esteem, i would definitely fuck her again. it does take the glair out of the sexual experience all together, and you learn that sex is not such a big deal really.

probably every girl in the world would disagree with this advice, but for me at least my virginity was a burden and once i got rid of it, i did feel more confortable, so i advice you loose it to whoever you can, the more you like her the better of course, and from there start targeting hotter and hotter girls, cuz virginity in a man is just not attractive to most woman. not because its unattractive itself, but because of what it says about you.

also it fucks you up in two ways cuz not only its unattractive and it says you are not quite mature yet, it also makes you more nervous than you would be around the idea of sex with your target girl often, and given that you haven't experienced, you may think its a bigger deal than it is, fucking yourself up

hope this helps! im sorry if its unpleasant to be told this, i sure know i felt like a dick while writing some of this, but this was my experience and maybe it will be of use to you taking your dessition :) good luck, and if you need any more help just pm me
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 7:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Quote:
Weird question ahead. I have an opportunity to fuck an HB4 with nice boobs but nothing more. I'm 19, she's 2X (won't tell me, but my guess is 22-25). It's complicated so I'll just say what happened yesterday from midnight to about 4 am. We sat in her car in a parking lot and talked, cuddled, tons of touching and the tension was high. She taught me how to kind of tickle her hand and did it to me as well. My soldier was up and it was obvious through the jeens, but I couldn't care less (in fact, I liked that she could see it). So my hand was near my lap, and she ticked it, occasionally giving the slighest 'accidental' touch of my buddy with her hand. She kept saying stuff like "it's REALLY REALLY COLD here". However, I didn't escalate it in to anything more than that because of one simple reason.
I had to take a huge dump :lol:. I tried delaying it as much as possible (and I obviously didn't fart), but it came to a point where I had a really nasty stomach ache, up to when I told her it was really fun and that I need to head home. She said that we should do it again some time, and I told her we would.

It took me a while to get comfortable with her because I'm a virgin :roll:. And I've actually never even kissed a girl before :P. Nothing unique, just never got the chance because of some misfortunate happenings in my youth.

My thoughts are thus: I'm not sure if she's 'worthy' of being my first guest. I am also not sure if such a title should exist. I don't plan on anything else than fucking her. I'm just a little worried that I'll regret having my first sex with a random chick who both isn't hot and isn't going to be my girlfriend. So should I 'keep myself' for 'the right one', or does it really not matter?

Any insights?

Fuck this whole idea about the "right one". When do you really ever know a girl is the "one". I will tell you one thing, I wouldn't fuck this chick. I have fucked a 5 before and I felt gross, haha. The thought in my head after that was "Really, bro, your standards aren't that low".

I would wait and lose your virginity to a girl you actually feel attraction for. YOU WILL REMEMBER YOUR FIRST TIME. Everyone does. Do you want to remember your first time with a ugly chick?
Author:  7000 [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
4/5 who gives a shit. If you were hard and you fancy her, then why not? We can't tell you who you want to sleep with. If you want to sleep with someone, do it. You don't need to check with your mates or the pick up community on here whether this girl is "worthy" of sleeping with you - only you know that.

As for sleeping with ugly girls to gain experience generally, I'm not actually against it. I always think aim high is the place to start. But when you're starting out, if you've got very little to no actual experience of sex, then you probably aren't going to have the sexual frame and confidence in your approach to be able to get top top girls - some guys have, but many won't have. If you haven't, then sleep with as many girls as you can, good or bad, just so that you know you're an animal in bed, and then you will be more comfortable around better girls. Obviously try to sleep with girls who are as hot as you can possibly get, but if it's a choice between a "4/10" and masturbation at home, go with the girl.

As for this being your first time - I don't think it makes much difference. I think in mny ways you'd be better "getting it out of the way". Your self esteem may drop if you're constantly only sleeping with ugly horrible girls with terrible personalities and shit bodies. But, it isn't going to happen just because you've slept with one ugly girl. I've slept with more than a couple in my time and never had self esteem problems afterwards. Weigh it up - option 1 is that you sleep with a girl who is average at best, but you get all this "virgin" stuff out the way, you get experience, you know "how to" have sex (very easy and comes naturally when you're doing it, but before you've had it, you often build it up in your head to be more than it is), so you'll probably be more comfortable next time. Option 2 is that you don't sleep with her, and continue being a virgin until the "right" girl comes along for you to have your first time with. This might take a while - if you've not even kissed a really hot girl so far, what makes you think one is suddenly going to come along and sleep with you sometime soon?
Author:  LucasNYC [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 4:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Gain karma, do your charity work! haha

But seriously, I have an awesome FWB who is about a HB6. I'm not really physically attracted (although she does have a great body), but it's great practice. We have become good friends so I can ask her any questions, practice new techniques, she works as my pivot, etc..

I think everyone deserves a good F atleast once in a while.

- Lucas
Author:  leiflette [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 5:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
I would say sleep with her.. I learned how to make a women squirt with an ugly chick once.. If i never slept with her, neither of us may of ever learned about it.. then again, we may have down the road on our own paths. No matter what would of or wouldn't of happened, that one ugly female that i chose to sleep with, taught me a lesson that got me tons of dates and sex down the road... Then again, she could of had herpes and shit would of been a lot different..
Author:  brandnew2 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
If you do go ahead and sleep with this girl, be VERY VERY careful and make sure to use protection. Of course, you should always use protection but it's 100 times more important when sleeping with an ugly girl.

For an ugly chick, having your seed inside of her gives her the chance to trap and hook you in for life. Imagine the horror of telling your friends and family you were about to be a father and the mother was a disgusting pile of goo.

I'm saying this sternly because it happened to me. An overweight chick i used to bang every so often always told me she was on birth control and I thought nothing of finishing inside of her. Well, one day I got the "I'm pregnant" text from this monster and realized what had happened. She had this sick and twisted thought that upon hearing the news I would "work on things" with her and have some sort of a relationship. Of course I didn't do that but I spent a year preparing to be a father and deaing with those horrors. Thank god the paternity test showed that I wasn't the father and it was some other unlucky guy.

again, the chance to trap you into a pregnancy is an ugly girl's best hope at snagging a hot guy and making sure he sticks around. It can and will happen if you let it. But as long as you're responsible, have at it!
Author:  Stankwagon [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
What i would do is this.

1. I'd fuck the shit out of her.....HOWEVER I would.....

2. force her to do anal and all kindsa dirty stuff...cuz FUCK , who gives a shit about her?

3. I'd force her to let me pee on her....

4. After I blew my load on her flabby ass i'd tie her up to the bed and just leave!

5. I would record it all and send it to stankwagon!
Author:  Jason. [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
the internet is a wierd place...
Author:  Xoved [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 11:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
I was lucky to lose my virginity to a hot chick, but that doesn't matter. I never even think about that time. In my opinion, I'd say go for it, because saving it for the "special" someone is just plain boring and you might have to wait a long time.

The moment you lose your virginity is the moment you start fucking more girls because you no longer feel insecure about your sexual status. You'll be proud of the results later on (when you can please hot girls and they'd want more everyday).
Author:  neo87 [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 12:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Fuck her. Get some sexual experience from her. Get your awkward moves out of the way and learn how to please her. That way when you get a hotter one you wouldn't be touching her boobs awkwardly or anything and know you can fuck her good.
Author:  Soy Un Pony Dork [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 5:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Do it. You shouldn't ultimately judge women solely on their looks they'll fade anyways. Sex is just rubbing yourself on another person. It's nothing that special. So getting a hot girl is just a game. The only problem is if they cant get your dick up. Picture this like your first boss battle. It should be easier. Lol would you be upset that you couldn't do calculus in first grade?
Author:  Ashx88 [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 2:32 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
I think you set your standard too high.
I mean she got your thing up. So instead of putting it that way, why cant you just have a good time till you find the right one.
Sheesh even virgin being picky :D
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sat Dec 28, 2013 5:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Fuck this bitch right here on the spot bare
Til she passes out and she forgot how she got there
Author:  notepad [ Fri Jan 10, 2014 10:24 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Sleeping with an ugly girl 'just to gain experience'?
Okay, I think the reason why I'm not rushing into fucking her is that I really don't wanna kiss her - I mean, I don't want an ugly chick whom I have no feelings for to be my first kiss.. Is there anything I can do to fuck her without kissing her?
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