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| Author: | ludonaut [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 5:24 am ] |
| Post subject: | HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him? |
Met girl, did everything better than BF. Cocky, cool, did push+pull. 2 Months in, we're having sex. 5 months in, she breaks up with BF. I had to go overseas for 1 month, but during that time, I lost my composure and was acting like a bitch, paranoid and obsessive. Come back, we immediately start seeing each other again, and the signs are there that her interest level didn't drop too low. She wanted to take me out to dinner, long stares at my face, lots of smiling, lots of intimacy. Problem: The other day, I run out to buy a toothbrush because she asked me too, as she wanted me to spend more time at her house. So I think, yeah sure, don't turn down an invitation like that. When I get back, she's making breakfast for us. But, I checked her phone while she wasn't looking, 'cause I had the sneaking suspicion she was still in contact with her ex. And yup, she was. Not only was she in contact with him, but she tried to call WHILE I STEPPED OUT TO GET THE TOOTHBRUSH! Looking through her text log, it's apparent she broke up with him, but he chased her for a couple weeks. Then he started pulling back, little by little, until he was replying to every third or fourth text she sent. I left, saying I had an emergency. Then I thought it over for a couple of days, and basically told her I saw the messages, and that I was gonna give her "space with no contact between us," as she clearly wasn't over him. My thinking was, if her ex is playing the "chase her then pull back slow" strategy, in order to defeat that I have to cut off all contact, so she ends up missing me more than her ex. Was this the right strategy? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 5:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Generally speaking, if you seduce a girl with a boyfriend, and you have her cheat on him, you really don't want to make her your girlfriend. Old habits die hard, you know. |
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| Author: | Brem89 [ Thu Dec 19, 2013 11:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Your best bet is to call it quits on her. It's obvious she's conflicted and like Chief said, old habits die hard. If she had no problem cheating on her ex, she wont have a problem cheating on you at some point. |
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| Author: | Apples185 [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
You don't go after a girl with bf!! We are people, not fucking dogs! Anyway, you sound like a girl yourself, being suspicious and sneaking to her phone. That is some bitchassness! It is NOT an accomplishment getting a girl with a bf, she is trash and thats what you got. |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 7:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Gotta agree with Apples185. Generally women who cheat on their boyfriends with you aren't worth a dime, at least for relationship material. The truth is some women will do it and some women won't. |
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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Fri Dec 20, 2013 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Guys, do you really believe that when a girl cheats on her bf with u, she is likely to do the same to you in the future. In fact, we are the intruders who unlock the cheating, aren't we? |
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| Author: | Chief [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Quote: In fact, we are the intruders who unlock the cheating, aren't we?
Yeah but you "unlocked" it on yourself, then, too.
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sat Dec 21, 2013 2:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
If you're gonna mess with a girl like this you can't catch any feelings. Either eat breakfast with her and fuck or move onto the next one. Don't turn a hoe into a housewife. |
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| Author: | valleyplaya [ Sat Jan 04, 2014 2:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HELP: Got girl to breakup with BF, now she's chasing him |
Quote: Generally speaking, if you seduce a girl with a boyfriend, and you have her cheat on him, you really don't want to make her your girlfriend.
This more than sums it up. NEVER catch feelings for a girl who is willing to cheat on/leave her boyfriend for you. Of course, you bang them! But do not EVER become her next serious fling/boyfriend.
Old habits die hard, you know. |
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