Well, I met this girl right after she broke up with her ex. She clearly used me as a rebound and dumped me after a month. Now I see she has got back in touch with her ex again (even though he fucked another girl when they were together). She keeps liking the things he posts on facebook etc. The problem is that I fell in love with her and now I want her back. 2 weeks later I tryed to make her meet me and explain why she left, but I got no respond. My friends are telling me to try talk to her at school, and just be casual like "hey, how are you?" Etc. But I feel that would be kinda wierd, because I'm the person who should be mad at her. But there's no way she is going to contact me. Do you guys have any advice, or should I just forget her?

Hey man,

Its kind of cool how many guys face this exact same situation. They fall for a girl that has still fallen for someone else; as a result the woman will use them as an emotional leverage to get back with their ex boyfriend. If you hadn't "fallen" for her.. She would still be trying to get you to so she can get "revenge(hate that word) " on the guy that broke her heart.

You were used.. and the dumped.. What good can come from you continuing to pursue her? Stop thinking with the weakness of your emotions and use your head dude.

She'll want you again if she sees that you are truly unaffected by what she did. Other than that you can forget. Continuing to push will only force her to continue to pull away.

Yeah, I guess you got a point. Because everything changed after I began to show more interest in her. But she kept telling me she had no feelings for him anymore, and she got really mad everytime he texted/called her. He seemed pretty needy if u ask me. At that point it seemed like she could now never get back together with him. I just don't understand how she still can be attracted to him after what he did.

By unaffected, do you mean I should still try to talk casual with her, or just pretend she dosen't exist? The problem is that i'm going to see her at school or parties. At the moment i've just been avoiding her, but I cant go on with that forever. I guess the question is "should I say hi, when I bump into her in the hallways?"