Quote: Good evening PUAs and welcome to my topic, a good week to all here. Thanks for taking some of your precious time to read these 5 lines below guys....
Straight to the point : Once i started flirting with this HB at work and she immediatelly gave me strong IOIs......(i told her "you might need a massage to relax......and she replied "i dont have a boyfriend to do it..."... i do have sticking points too, as feeling i wait to long to trust people....not following IOIs.... and this was all my life resulted in losing beautiful HBs....
I understand that i might be conveying that message that im not interested in her also by doing this.....
Anyway moving forward in time, Last times i saw her with this guy........ and today they were just kissing lightly. This breaks all attraction, and is now over for me, but in a way i was kinda expecting it.... (kinda gets me thinking that with women, that old proverd apllies alltimes.....the early bird catches the worm......makes any sense to you guys ? )
I know, alphas dont go straing showing DLV jelousy, or anything like angryness or neeedyness against what she does...like "...hey nice to see you finally found a boyfriend"
I know what you're all gonna say just take it as my fault, just ignore her, give her no more of your attention, move on with your life and other thousands girls all over the world. Right. I know its not her fault.
Now, question is: when she comes waving to my side, how does a High Value Alpha lets them Know he is aware of what is happening withoud showing needyness ? ( Point is i just dont want to be the friendly joker in nowaday relations while other guys fuck these HBs ...) I mean HBs do it all the time with us......so how should i convey that message ?
PS: It just keeps me wondering if i really want women...... or if i just want to be and love myself....
Opinions and help are very welcomed
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I'm a little confused about what you're asking but sounds like the first question is something along the lines of "if it's possible, how do I salvage this situation?"
It is possible to salvage. And as far as how you should handle it, get her in isolation, or at least in a situation where the guy isn't there somewhere that isn't necessarily normal for you guys to hang out. Take her to a new club, a new bar, somewhere you two haven't hung out before, IMO this will help to break through her typical beliefs and opinions about you and give you a chance to almost "restart" with her. From that point on, just run good, solid game. Work some attraction gambits into your conversation and come up with some DHV stories (whether real stories from your life or canned material from other PUAs)- PM me if you need any- to work in as well, and watch for the IOIs... and follow them. If you get three IOIs, you should be going for a kiss, no questions asked. So watch for both the subconscious ones (touching hair, scratching wrist, etc.) and the conscious ones (asking questions about you, etc.) and once you see three, or if you REALLY don't like following them then wait for four if it makes you more comfortable, and go for the kiss. If you have trouble kiss closing, use Style's "Evolution Phase Shift (http://www.stylelife.com/challenge/2012 ... eShift.pdf), it really helps you to go onto autopilot and get out of the moment and hasn't failed me yet. And MOST IMPORTANTLY, don't bring up the boyfriend/boy toy/other guy at all. Let her do that. If you run solid game on her, odds are she won't mention him at all and it will be as if he doesn't exist.
Second question: "what is the alpha thing to do if you see a girl who you're meeting up with approaching you and she waves?"
Dude, don't overthink this. Just wave back and flash a big smile. But don't go to her, stay where you are and keep your body language however it is (whether that's facing her, facing someone else, facing somewhere else). Don't turn towards her and open up or walk towards her just because you see her. Wave back, smile-acknowledge her- but don't supplicate to her.
Cheers buddy and good luck.
-Maverick
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