I went out for a few dates with some girl earlier this year.
She told me on the 3rd date she needed some space and didn't want to arrange a 4th date so soon..
I didn't really know what it meant but got back in contact with her a few times. She flirted with me over text, but would also make an excuse about why she couldn't see me. She was recovering from a relationship break up (heart broken) and told me she just didn't want to date at the time etc..
Last time we had texted I just asked her to let me know when she was free.. she replied 2 days later telling me about her weekend but not answering the question?!
Anyway.. I left it at that.. assumed defeat or low interest and not worth doing anymore.
I saw her last week. She went to same bar I went to for an event. I ignored her when I walked in as if she wasn't there.
About 30 mins after I walked in, she came up to me.. started talking to me.. we stood there chatting for 5 mins. I cut the conversation and said lets go to the bar/lets get a drink.. I think she went separately and that was it. Maybe didn't hear me or thought I wanted to leave it etc..
I was drinking quite a bit and when I do, I become very confident and alpha and am good around the girls.
I also met some girl there who I have been seeing for about a year. Don't like her anyway near as much, but she is always up for kissing/coming back to mine and this was perfect jealousy material.
It seemed in addition to pulling this girl around with me, I was also flirting with (I have been told as I don't remember much) this other girls friends and she could see that.
(lets say)
girl I like= 1,
girl I just fuck that was also there = 2
At the end of the night, 1 still there and only a few of us were left. Apparently I went up to her when she talking to another friend of mine and has my arms around her, was flirting and then I know we went into a deep conversation. I only remember very little of what we spoke about.
I think I remember her asking how long I have been seeing girl 2, and I told her about a year. She seemed pissed off as she realised I was seeing 2, when myself and 1 went on a few dates.
girl 2 wanted to come home with me and was coming up to me by the bar whilst I was talking 1. I told her to wait downstairs.. 2 came back up 10 mins later.. I told her to wait again.. She started going mad.. I said well tough shit.. go home then. 1 moved to go to the toilet probably thinking how was stealing my attention from 2. However, I then decided to leave with 2 without saying goodbye.
So I was with 2 walking down the street 10 mins later, when low and behold, 1 starts calling my phone. I couldn't believe it. I ignored the call and went home with 2.
I text 1 the next day
me: I saw you calling last night, wow you're keen!
her: We were mid chats, I popped to the loo an you vanished like mr vanish!
me: I guess I must have been thoroughly entertained by the conversation then
her: Cheeky!!
So it has been 4 days now, no contact since. But with respect to all of this.. what does she want?
