Hey guys here's what's up I posted a thread of the same subject, but thought It might be helpful to make a more specific thread.

Here's what's up. Not last summer, but the summer before I met this girl things were great, but I didn't realize there was an ex factor and how badly she was hung up. So I was dead in the water before I even started. Things started going downhill, and in the midst of this I had to get my blood work updated for boxing. It didn't come back clear there was a chance it was cancer thankfully it wasn't. At the time my mentality was needy as fuck I won't argue that. My thoughts were I can't handle my situation let alone losing her I thought by chasing I'd get her back Wrong!! When I stopped pushing she came back, but the relationship was doomed.

Fast forward to today a little over a year later. I flipped on fb she was on I thought about re-opening, but wasn't sure really what to say. If I wanna stand a chance at anything I gotta show I'm not the needy piece of shit she knew before. This idea just popped into my head I'm not outcome dependant I don't have emotional attachment to her anymore nor do I have anything to lose. I just thought it could be a fun challenge to see if I could make a comeback. I figure anything worth doing is worth doing right so that's why I'm here asking for advice. I'm gonna be talking to her on fb I have her #, but its been so long I don't know if she has the same number anymore.

As always any advice is appreciated!!