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| Author: | Zvesdan [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 12:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Old friends attack my new confidence |
What's up fellas, i've been feeling pretty down as of late. I had just recently went to a house party with some of my highschool friends who I have not seen in a long while. Now my some of my friends were cool with it asking questions like "hey man did you get laid or something" that made me laugh and was a ego booster. But my of my friends friend who was usually the AMOG was like "wtf, he goes to college and comes back a diffrent person" which was cool at the time but then... Things didn't go so great after a bit with him. After establishing my self as a new person and more confidence and more alpha I started to joke with him a bit which was funny at the time, but then he started saying that he was going to punch me in the throught or start a fight with me and I smoothly said relax but, in my opinion I think he felt threatened and was trying to establish dominance for me to back off. And after a while he was getting to me. Started talking about how i was acting and dancing to this chick and started laughing about it. I dealt with it for a while and even left the group for a while with some other friends but, after just mocking me and laughing at me I gave in and told him whats your problem. he said nothing looking at me like then looking at the chick then started laughing. After this realized why I was such a beta male. and why my high school life was terrible when he was in my group. He would always mess with me and didn't like me being in his territory of friends. My anxiety was coming back and after this i couldn't even really enjoy the party anymore my vibe was gone (though i tried to amp it up but it didn't go very high) and i just wanted to leave now after that i was quiet again, my confidence was shattered a bit and I was kinda back to how i was. I was mad not even playing around anymore and he had control and when i did something he seemed to be on me a bit. Before he was cool with me, but this point I think he's kinda annoyed by and i really don't give a fuck! I seen two ways to get rid of the AMOG befriend them or tear them down. I tried to befriend and it usually works but, not with him. I simply learned that i shouldn't hang out with those people who are always gonna bring you and done with them. there in my past but, this my confidence is still abit worn because of that and my success with girls at party's and clubs isn't that high so this is serously bothering me. Any advice would be most appreciated I hate feeling down like this. My other friends were cool with it and loving the way i was and had a great time with it to so it was just kinda the AMOG that's it. |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 4:48 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
Hey man, you should avoid him like venereal disease (couldn't think of anything worst)... but if you can't work around meeting him, you should know that the only reason a dude behaves the AMOG way is because he feels inferior to you... if he were successful with girls he wouldn't have the time or energy to make fun of you or any other guy... so I would use this angle to undermine his position in the group... when he starts laughing at the way you dance, I would go "Oh, I'm sorry, I guess I am cramping your style, that's why you're not surrounded with hot chicks" or "Hey, dude, where's your girlfriend? Oh, right, you don't have a girlfriend..." and when he threatens to hit you, I would tool him the old Tyler Durden way... "Wait man, first we take out our shirts and flex our muscles, then we do push ups, then we arm wrestle and only afterwards we fight" while mock posing bodybuilder style... that should put the AMOG in his place... a ridiculous childish guy that hasn't outgrown elementary school... let me know how it worked out for you... good luck! |
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| Author: | Zvesdan [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 5:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
thanks bro and i'll just not be around him and that kind of group anymore i only like a few in that group anyway so and i think it's rather pathetic how he always trys to use fighting as a way to feel dominate. but ya avoiding is probably what i'm going to do. |
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| Author: | gingerguy [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 6:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
Two words my friend, two words. FUCK IT. Don't care what your friend or friends are doing, saying, whatever. They're jealous of the fact that YOU improved and that they haven't. |
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| Author: | slantman [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 2:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
Dude this guy was jelly as f**k you took the spotlight for the night man. He prolly noticed more attractive confidence, smarts, etc. Anything really. He sounded very worried you were taking over the alpha spot. Some dudes hate to share, it's pathetic. He was being a stupid guy. Suck it up, laugh and take all of his friends and girls lol |
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| Author: | Kinqslo [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 4:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
a classic example of jealousy! He completely felt inferior to you. That show's you only that you improved a lot! I had a similar problem a few weeks ago on a highschool class reniuon. Some guys just coulnd't handle the fact that I was cooler, funnier and more alpha then they. How things change  Just don't give a fuck about those losers! |
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| Author: | Rigelkent [ Mon Dec 16, 2013 5:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Old friends attack my new confidence |
Hey dude, the best is to totally ignore that bastard and do your stuff. Just walk upto him calmly and stare him down. Tell him to mind his own stuff. Ask him where is his girl? Don't run away from him dude, he will feel more ALPHA.
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