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| Author: | bihfutball [ Sat Dec 14, 2013 9:37 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Playing "Hard-To-Get" |
Ive got a girl right now who Im working on but shes playing the hard-to-get card all the time. Granted shes an HB10 so Im expecting her to give alotta shit tests. She does this thing where she'll text me, I reply, and then she doesn't text back for like a day. Its actually a bit childish. Ive held my ground and shown interest but also shown that I dont care if shes not responding by not texting her again. But Im really tempted to call her out on this game shes playing cause I wanna get down to whats important and move forward. I would do it playfully but im on the fence about it. Do yall think this would make me look needy? Or like I care too much? Im not dead set on this girl, but Id like to pull it. Thanks everybody |
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| Author: | Redlight [ Sat Dec 14, 2013 10:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing "Hard-To-Get" |
My two cents... don't call her on her game, this will show that you care and lower your value in front of her... don't focus on this girl alone, have plenty on your plate and this will curb the neediness out of you... she'll sense it and eventually give in or stop completely the texting game... there's really not much you can do here, other than play it cool and wait... as well, try calling her instead of texting and get her to meet you... |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sun Dec 15, 2013 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing "Hard-To-Get" |
Different people have different ways they text. Not everyone has the time or desire to get into back & forth text convos with immediate replies. Also, seconded what Redlight says. Strongly suggest not calling her out on something she probably doesn't even think is an issue (as it shouldn't be). And if she is playing this game, if you have female abundance in your life, you don't even notice (or think it's cute) if a girl is playing a lil 'hard to get' game. |
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| Author: | CopernicanShift [ Sun Dec 15, 2013 1:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Playing "Hard-To-Get" |
Why do you want her to text you back same day? She's a busy girl. You should be a busy man too, you shouldn't notice if it takes her 3 days to text back. Carry on regardless. She's not your girlfriend and even if she was it could be a good sign if she were comfortable getting back to you next day when she was busy, it might mean she's secure in her attachment. When she is more into you and you have had some dates she might text back sooner. You just be busy doing man stuff, enjoying your own time, even seeing other girls. When I was dating earlier in the year sometimes wouldn't get text back or a couple of days, I was too busy to notice - when she did got back to me I'd set the next date. We'd have lots of fun. Then i'd just do the same. This was with happening with more than one girl. When she texts, arrange a date. Hang out, have fun, go to bed. Don't go back and forth forever by phone. Hope this helps |
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