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I got a second chance! How do I make the most of it?
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Author:  brandnew2 [ Sat Dec 14, 2013 7:18 pm ]
Post subject:  I got a second chance! How do I make the most of it?
Hey everyone. A little quick background on me- I'm about to turn 24 in January and have been working on my game with women for almost four years now.

I hit a massive road block a year ago when I was in a rut and had sex with a filthy fat chick out of desperation. I didn't use protection and she told me a month later she was pregnant and I was the dad. Obviously this was completely devastating. I was prepared to subject myself to the horrors of family court and dealing with this woman for the rest of my life. After an absolutely grueling 11 months, I got what amounted to an early Christmas present- the kid isn't mine! 2 lessons learned here- ALWAYS use protection and DON'T sleep with an ugly girl just out of desperation.

Anyways, I've been given a second chance that I probably don't deserve. I've had moderate success with women in the past.. I've had sex with at least 60 women and lost count after that. But the VAST majority of these women are people I met on sites like PoF and OKCupid. There's been maybe 5-7 girls I met through networking with friends and 1-2 I actually "cold approached" and ended up having sex with.

As we all know, online dating has its good and bad points. On the plus side, it's an easy way to approach women and generally the people on there are reasonably interested. Rejection doesn't sting as much. I have gotten good at it too- one of my highlights was meeting a girl for coffee and after a 20 minute conversation banging her in her car. I've also had nights of 2-4 dates in a row where I got lucky several times. But we know the pitfalls. The beautiful women are few and far between. Out of the people I've slept with from online dating, maybe 10 of them are what I would call gorgeous. And yet I go to the mall and see hundreds of gorgeous girls just walking around.

I know there's a world of better women out there, but I'm just so accustomed to my online routine. Anyone have any insight?
Author:  Redlight [ Sat Dec 14, 2013 10:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I got a second chance! How do I make the most of it?
Hey man, here's a couple of thoughts from my side... obviously you are doing something right if you are picking up these chicks online and sleeping with them... this seems to work well for you, and this is keeping you from making progress in your offline game... it's your "path of least resistance", and as long as you are doing it, you will have little motivation to go out and sarge offline. You can either keep doing what you do, and increase the approach rate to hotter chicks on these websites, or you can go cold turkey online and focus exclusively on gaming offline...

My question is: do you honestly believe that on average there are hotter chicks offline than are online? My observation is that the same laws of the world apply to both off/on line, and there's a bell shaped distribution curve of beauty (as well as all things in life) given a large enough sample... but then again, the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence... :-)
Author:  Tr@veler [ Sat Dec 14, 2013 10:40 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: I got a second chance! How do I make the most of it?
Welcome back. You know what to do, I assume. Work on your offline, real world game with real women on the very real streets, bars, clubs, social events, social circles, everywhere. Become a ladies' man everywhere you go. Not just online ;)
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