PUA Forum :: Does the amount of guys a girl slept with bother you at all?

My personal rule of thumb is that if her number of partners exceeds mine, then her image begins to hit dirty.

I'm kind of opposite though.. I find if I really begin to care about a girl, her history bothers me less..
This is usually, however, when I begin to care for her, before she tells me her number.
A girl I barely know, telling me she's had, like 25 guys.. kind of earns a worse image.

Also if I ever find out she's lied about her number, she's pretty much out the door. Liars drive me crazy.

I have noticed that girls I don't have an emotional attachment (i guess jealousy when i am attached) I could care less. But when i think about a girl I care about and the guys in the past, i can't help but feel a certain way. It's a lot better now, as I have practiced controlling that emotion, but can't say I am 100% over it.

Now, I don't really use the word slut or hoe much or even at all, but for example, when I hear this one girl at my school slept with half the basketball team...well, lets just say it doesn't really help her image too much.

I don't ask... nor care anymore. Wtf does it have to do with me???

As long as I put it down it doesn't matter.

But she better not have herpes....

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 4:01 am ]
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I have noticed that girls I don't have an emotional attachment (i guess jealousy when i am attached) I could care less. But when i think about a girl I care about and the guys in the past, i can't help but feel a certain way. It's a lot better now, as I have practiced controlling that emotion, but can't say I am 100% over it. Now, I don't really use the word slut or hoe much or even at all, but for example, when I hear this one girl at my school slept with half the basketball team...well, lets just say it doesn't really help her image too much.

Author:	TOAA [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 4:30 am ]
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Same here

Author:	EuroCHarmer89 [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 4:39 am ]
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My personal rule of thumb is that if her number of partners exceeds mine, then her image begins to hit dirty. I'm kind of opposite though.. I find if I really begin to care about a girl, her history bothers me less.. This is usually, however, when I begin to care for her, before she tells me her number. A girl I barely know, telling me she's had, like 25 guys.. kind of earns a worse image. Also if I ever find out she's lied about her number, she's pretty much out the door. Liars drive me crazy.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 8:08 am ]
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Quote: My personal rule of thumb is that if her number of partners exceeds mine, then her image begins to hit dirty. I'm kind of opposite though.. I find if I really begin to care about a girl, her history bothers me less.. This is usually, however, when I begin to care for her, before she tells me her number. A girl I barely know, telling me she's had, like 25 guys.. kind of earns a worse image. Also if I ever find out she's lied about her number, she's pretty much out the door. Liars drive me crazy. I mean I guess we all have our personal standards...I don't really understand how history bothers you less when you care. For me, it's like you start thinking, wow, that's a lot of bodies she's been with. A girl that I just met, once I get it the thought out the way, it's like, well I knew before I got into a relationship with her...etc.

Author:	vicparkguy83 [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 3:43 pm ]
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A number too LOW bothers me almost as much as a number too high. If she's 25 and only been with 3 guys then if anything that's a turnoff, makes her seem boring. If she's 25 and been with more than 50, yea also a turn-off. But that all said i barely care if I like her I like her. One of my ex's said she'd been with over 100 and it didnt faze me much.

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Author:	AFCToTheMax [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 4:01 pm ]
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I don't really understand this question and this is why: Why do you even ask her how many guys she has been with if you are afraid what you might hear ? I haven't met a girl who explicitly told me how many guys she has been with. If she does, ohwell, you can decide how seriously you want to take her. Sometimes I ask about her past simply because I'm interested in which case I don't get upset about whatever she says because it was me who asked in the first place. I think it bothers you because you compare her number to yours and get insecure plain and simple. Hell I don't even know my own number and it wasn't that much...

Author:	Il-Cavalieri [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 5:19 pm ]
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I don't care because the past is in the past. I only demand two things in a girl: her absolute trust and loyalty. And give her the same in return. If I couldn't trust her, then she wouldn't be my girl. If I just want to fuck her, then it is not even worth a second thought. The way I see it, the more experienced she is, the more ways she knows to please me. That being said, I once hanged with a girl I couldn't take anywhere withou seeing one of her ex's. That was... interesting.

Author:	Jay (Majik) [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 6:50 pm ]
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Girls like to have fun. If you want a girlfriend who's a freak... You've gotta accept the fact that she had to learn all of that somewhere. The more experience she has, the more freaky she is gonna be. Look at it this way too... if you were a girl, and you could fuck as many guys as you want to fuck, you would probably have a new guy every night of the week.

Author:	TheFury [ Fri Dec 13, 2013 6:54 pm ]
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Quote: I have noticed that girls I don't have an emotional attachment (i guess jealousy when i am attached) I could care less. But when i think about a girl I care about and the guys in the past, i can't help but feel a certain way. It's a lot better now, as I have practiced controlling that emotion, but can't say I am 100% over it. Now, I don't really use the word slut or hoe much or even at all, but for example, when I hear this one girl at my school slept with half the basketball team...well, lets just say it doesn't really help her image too much. The best solution is to stop thinking about it, stop asking about it, and stop trying to find out her past sexual history. Just avoid finding out. Everything is much easier that way.

Author:	Mr. Assertive [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 6:38 am ]
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Interesting ideologies, guys. I mainly think jealousy is the culprit. That emotion I can't seem to handle very well yet. Working on it, though.

Author:	Melodical [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 9:15 pm ]
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Is it because, secretly you're concerned about what other people think about you if they know you're GF is the uber passionate type and you think it will reflect on your personal or societal value, in that being seen with this type of woman then people will assume your attractiveness level is only good enough to pull girls who aren't difficult to get? If it is...then you're too worried about others opinions. Asking a girl how many guys she's slept with is about as needy as you can get.

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Thu Dec 26, 2013 10:26 pm ]
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The moment you ask, you are showing her your weakness and neediness. The key is don't ask. Girls rarely divulge this information without being asked and girls ALWAYS lie about their real number, no matter how honest they are (just like guys lie and make the number higher). Pickup teaches us the skills we need to get hot women in bed THE SAME NIGHT. A single girl aged 25 who has had 8 years of partying behind her has probably had a lot of dick. You think 25 is a high number for a 25 year old? That's only 3 guys in a year. I would say that she is cock-starved; not cock-hungry. You can't have it both ways. If you want a virgin who refuses to suck cock, go and pickup at church. I'm just happy with my sluts who let me tie them up and explode in their face and invite their friends over for drunken parties. Couldn't give a flying fuck what my GF did in the past, unless she literally starts making out with another dude right in front of me. My GF has had threesome with 2 guys, been with a celebrity black dude (never again, too painful she said lol) and all sorts of other kinky shit. She has the option to sleep with anyone, but chooses me. I know what turns her on, I know what makes her cum, she stays with me because I fuck her the best and I don't give a fuck about her past. Every girl you have ever met in your life has had another guy's jizz on her face and tits and she LOVED it. Including yo' mamma and auntie and probably your grandma too! It doesn't mean you can't love them. It doesn't mean they are sluts. It just means they're not uptight and they just want the same things in life that you do. If you can't handle a girl's past, break up with her. Your loss though. I love freaky girls and I can't stand boring sex.

Author:	BrandonMarshall [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 4:43 am ]
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I don't ask... nor care anymore. Wtf does it have to do with me??? As long as I put it down it doesn't matter. But she better not have herpes....

Author:	Hunter_Foxe [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 11:32 am ]
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Quote: I don't ask... nor care anymore. Wtf does it have to do with me??? As long as I put it down it doesn't matter. But she better not have herpes.... Bro. Wear a condom!

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Author:	Xoved [ Fri Dec 27, 2013 11:40 am ]
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All humans have sexual desires to be fulfilled, so it's OK for me if a girl sleeps with many guys. For the basketball team example you mentioned, what if you had the chance to sleep with every cheerleader in college? Would you say no? I doubt it.