i know some girls do the "wait 2 days" rule the same aas some guys used to do, so maybe she was able to see your phone number without opening the message and just haven't decided to text you yet.....i would wait another day or 2 before i get worried

If you guys didn't have a pen, she could have written her # down w/ her lipstick even. Anything works. In general, take their #s rather than giving you theirs via FB. Just some ideas for future interactions. If a girl is into it, she doesn't want you to make a mistake when you take her # down for instance if you are typing her # into your phone.

This one doesn't seem down, but you never know. What's the harm in pinging her again in a few days. Your options are extremely limited b/c you only have her FB. Honestly at this point I would just try to get her # by Facebooking her for it or by Facebooking her to text you so I could text her rather than FB. If she won't give you her # or send you a simple text, obviously next the girl.

Drop into FB with a fun message, and segue for the # or tell her to text you something so you get the #.

Thanks for the help man!

I was thinking about sending this message on facebook:


"Last week saturday i met a cute blonde girl, but i am afraid she got kidnapped, if you have any more information contact me"

Seems ok?

Maybe adding my phone number after the "contact me" or just leave it at that? Gonna send the message tomorrow

Im not sure if it's just me reading something wrong here, but I think you messed it up with your last message.
'You don't want to see my toilet' ?!.. Why mention about your toilet. That word has a dirty association and are you saying you toilet is messy and that you piss or shit everywhere but down the hole?.. I don't get it..

It could be you caused her to have a negative feeling from the text and lost attraction.
When you have dated someone for 5 years, you can fart in their face. First meets, you have to be bloody careful what you do and say. Tripwire mentality.

Just My humble opinion though.

that's true but i think if he said it in person with a smile he could have pulled it off.....i was thinking the same thing but i knew times have change and girls aren't as hard as they used to be so doing that wouldn't hurt

Hey guys, so here's the deal:

I met this HB8 last friday when i went out, i met her through a mutual girl friend by coincidence on our way home, they had to call a cab and i was with my car and had 2 spots left so i offered them a ride home (They live in the same place as i do)

Anyway, the last person i had to drive home was HB8 and in the car we had some good conversations, she was easy to talk to and when i dropped her off i said i wanted her number or she was not getting out of the car (jokingly).

Now here's the thing: She said "sure" but her mobile phone was empty and mine was too (I saw that hers was empty)

So we said "We'll add each other on facebook and exchange numbers there" .

Then the next day she indeed added me and the conversation went like this


Me: "I am still driving around in your street, can't find the exit ("Callback Humor")
Her: "Haha jeez, your feeling for direction must be really good then!
Me: "Not so much, you don't want to see my toilet... Anywayy *My number here*


after that she hasn't responded yet (i sent this 1 day ago) and she hasn't read it yet either according to facebook (Not sure if i can trust that) but she has been online multiple times on facebook.

Any explanation for this or how to go from here? Also if i did something wrong please tell me

Thanks in advance guys