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Author:  Tyler13 [ Mon Dec 09, 2013 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Trust vs Sex
How much trust does it require for a girl to sleep with you? Give a percentage and give general examples.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Dec 09, 2013 9:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
0% at least at 1st. She is not 'required' to trust you, but she must have COMFORT.

A woman may give you her body, but there are parts that she'll never give up.

That's where the trust comes in.
Author:  Tyler13 [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 1:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
Quote:
0% at least at 1st. She is not 'required' to trust you, but she must have COMFORT.

A woman may give you her body, but there are parts that she'll never give up.

That's where the trust comes in.
Ok that makes sense, I have a few more questions tho. What are parts that she will never give up? and what do you mean by at 1st? Does that mean that later she need to trust you to keep having sex?
Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 1:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
Comfort is overrated, sort of. To get ransom lays you can get it through comfort OR sexual lust. Sexual lust is usually faster and frankly more fun but for the girl it'll become one dimentional eventually. Sane with comfort pure comfort will get boring and she will dump u for sexual lust guy.

Key is combination of both. Ideal balance 70% lust 30% comfort.
Author:  Il-Cavalieri [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 4:05 pm ]
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Ok that makes sense, I have a few more questions tho. What are parts that she will never give up? and what do you mean by at 1st? Does that mean that later she need to trust you to keep having sex?
Well, think about it this way: there are stuff you tell girls, stuff you tell your friends, and stuff you only tell to very close friends. The "I'd take a bullit for that bastard" kind of friends. This is pretty much the same thing. There is this girl I know, she friendzoned me, I tried to get out, didn't work, then used her as a wing and eventualy ended up hooking her up with one of my mates. To this day she is probably my biggest friend and there is stuff I know about her that no one else knows. She had some 5 boyfriends since I know her and none of them knows her as well as I do. The same way she knows stuff about me I never told my GF. The way I see it, that is what he meant. People have layers (like ogers and onions). The more you trust someone, the more you let them peel the layers of your being. But the very core, the heart of who you are, is for nobody else but you.

As for the second question, yes. You may have a one night stand with pretty much anyone. Ever heard about "angry sex"? There was this one time, I had been invited by a college professor of mine to be one of the spokesman on a conference cicle about political radicalism and terrorism. Basically, I am a former law enforcment officer and current security consultant at a risk managment and competitive intelligence company. I'm the typical conservative big guy with slicked back hair and a $1000 suit who thinks "democracy" stands for sending your ass to guantanamo and sees human rights and freedom of the press as more of guidelines than actual rules. And I shared my pannel with a smoking hot left wing human rights activist who worked for some imigrant protection NGO. We were at each other's throats for two days. The words "nazi" and "pot head hippie" may have been used. On the last day, at the closing dinner, we both drank a little too much and ended up sharing a taxi to the hotel. Then we went to her room for one of the best nights of sex I ever had, and I'll be glad if I don't see her pretty mug and stunning ass ever again. So you see, she doesn't even have to like you to have sex with you. You may have sex on lust alone. But to have sex REPETEDLY, either she is your friend with benefits (and I assume you don't have friends you don't trust) or she becomes your girlfriend. Hence, the "at first" part.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 4:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
why are we focused on percentages? It seems to me she's either comfortable or she's not. Just keep progressing... flirt, touch her hand, touch her shoulder, maybe run your fingers through her hair, kiss her, make out.... etc etc etc til she allows you to fuck her. If she denies you on a step... take 2 steps back and work your way up again.

There's a lot more details than that... im just kind of lost how a % can help you??
Author:  gelberto [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 8:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
That could be quite a good friend of iron! ! !
Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Dec 11, 2013 9:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Trust vs Sex
Quote:
why are we focused on percentages? It seems to me she's either comfortable or she's not. Just keep progressing... flirt, touch her hand, touch her shoulder, maybe run your fingers through her hair, kiss her, make out.... etc etc etc til she allows you to fuck her. If she denies you on a step... take 2 steps back and work your way up again.

There's a lot more details than that... im just kind of lost how a % can help you??
I think I work better thinking this way. Like for example if I think she will be comfortable sleeping with me if she is 50% comfortable(enjoyable acquaintance), than I know to stop building comfort and just go for the kill. Start escalating harder. If I feel like she needs to be 80% comfortable(a good friend) then I know not to make any real bold sexual moves until I reach that level. I feel like just doing the one step forward two steps back makes me uncalibrated. I'm always thinking about what I can get away with or not. Definitely a good way of testing the waters tho, however; I am more concerned with what guys think the percentage is of when a girl is DTF? And I guess we can agree that it is comfort that gets you laid not trust.
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