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Author:	JTQatar [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:07 pm ]
Post subject:	Destroyed a relationship, now what?
So there is this girl and she is quite hot. I know her, known her for a while but i knew she had "a little something" going on with one of my buddies. I knew that he only wanted to fuck her and that he told her what she wanted to hear just to make her fuck him... Because i really like her i decided to tell her that he is cheating on her and that its not a relationship and that he has 2-3 different girls at the same time and she was shocked! She blew him obviously. Now she is so thankful that i told her about it and what not. She is texting me, calling me saying that she thinks that im different from the other guys and that im not one of those assholes who treat her like shit and cheat on her. I mean she is right though...Im not like that at all. And im not looking just for fun. Im looking for something serious. A relationship! Like i said she is quite hot. A solid 8 i´d say. She is really nice and i feel like we can definitely hang out. BUT...she said that she has enough of men for now and she doesnt believe in honest guys anymore and blah blah. Now my question is: What should i do with this girl? I mean i definitely have a shot at her now since she really likes me. I already asked her out to do something together and she was really happy about it and said "Yes we should do this soon!" Should i just keep it simple, start some light kino and see where it goes?

Author:	n2thevoid [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:23 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Destroyed a relationship, now what?
Hangout with her, build trust, be light and airy about things without being outcome focused. Game other girls too, DO NOT put your life on hold for this person hoping they come through the other side of the tunnel wanting to be in a relationship with you. It can go either way.

Author:	Fusenel [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:46 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Destroyed a relationship, now what?
Id be wary man, the last thing you want is you to be a shoulder to cry on for her guy issues. I mean dont get me wrong, sometimes its okay to hear her out. But, if shes gonna go down the route of telling you her problems then shes viewing you as more of a friend. Your buddy sounds like a typical guy with lots of options in women, and even though she wont admit it, she probably liked that sort of challenge about him.

Author:	JTQatar [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:56 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: Destroyed a relationship, now what?
"without being outcome focused" Im not! Im really not. What happens, happens. She is a cutie but i dont mind being just friends with her either. But i have to use this situation for some advantage now... "Game other girls too" Well her friend is digging on me as well. But im not sure if its a great idea to game 2 girls who are close friends, you know what i mean? But she is a 8 too so i wouldnt mind gaming her as well... "But, if shes gonna go down the route of telling you her problems then shes viewing you as more of a friend. " I know. The thing is if she gets the feeling that im digging on her she will probably say "Oh you´re just like the others. You wanted to use my sad situation to get me" or some shit like that. So its a bit tricky.

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