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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How not to kill attraction... |
Hello buddies. To begin with. I have been doing PUA for less than 3 months, so I'm quite new and have too much to learn I suppose. Straight to the problem. (I'll try to be quick and cover the main things) I recently got into college. I met this HB7 from my class. We exchanged numbers, Facebook . Texted eachother for a while and I invited her to study with me at the library , that was the beggining. Afterthat, I started gaming her, negs push-pull, eye contact, and slowly started applying some kino. On one occasion I went for Kiss close and she kind of rejected but I didn't care and tried again a couple of days later.She went for it. However, we started seeing eachother quite often during the last week. Mainly, we study at the library and I quite often kino + kiss her, and I can feel she goes crazy. She texts me every day. The thing is she has got a boyfriend , I don't care and never discuss it with her. Yesterday she mentioned that she want me to go on a trip with her for few days sometime in January. Basically , I don't have sex terrain she either. Today , I saw a classmate of ours who mentioned that hes gonna spend some time with her and her housemates in the evening. I saw her before they headed to her place and she didn't mention anything. Then I told her that I have spoken with this guy and he told me that he is planning to call her and have a dinner with her friends. I felt some kind of jealousy which I don't want to show . Anyway, She says to me that she ' lacks the ability to reject and that I look sO handsome. My questions is shall I mention the fact that she didn't invite me with them. Shall I stop texting her for a while. How to keep her attracted. I'm so confused I don't wanna lose this set. Thanks guys. Edit: I forgot to mention the fact that she told me that I'm the second person she has ever kissed. That makes me think that I have built really strong rapport. And her boyfriend lives in her native country . |
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| Author: | Zvesdan [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Making her chase you- need help |
I'm new too this as well, but if you don't wanna loose her and want to get rid of the boyfriend. I'd say simply use the straw man technique from what i read you plant the straw man and she tears down her relationship herself. The only concern is that i have only seen this technique done at the beginning stages like if you just met her. But i think you can still use it. And by what it sounds like she is greatly attracted so you might not even need but that is my suggestion again i'm still noob at this. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:20 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Making her chase you- need help |
Ordinarily I'd help, but it goes against my values as I don't condone cheating of any sort. |
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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Making her chase you- need help |
Quote: Ordinarily I'd help, but it goes against my values as I don't condone cheating of any sort.
Are you telling me that it's better to let it go and move to another girl.I really like her I want her to experience something which she has never experienced before. I know we cannot be together anyway. She is going back to her country in 10 months. I don't want to destroy her relationship. at the same time I wanna go into her and make her scream of orgasm. ahaha that was a bit weird. I mean, we have good time together but I got her so confused she tries to pretend that nothings has happened between us while we are with other classmates. It is strange but she enjoys it. I wouldn't hurt her feelings I treat her like gentleman. I am also a bit confused. I performed the cube when I met her> OMG that's a really powerful tool guys. |
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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 10:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How not to kill attraction... |
Guys I am thinking of now responding to her messages and after few days tell her that I am quite upset that she did not invite me with the others. What do you think. Is it a stupid think to do? |
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| Author: | DboTheHero [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 10:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How not to kill attraction... |
Quote: Guys I am thinking of now responding to her messages and after few days tell her that I am quite upset that she did not invite me with the others. What do you think. Is it a stupid think to do?
Don't do this. Think of the benefits of doing this; I can't really see any. She's allowed to do social things with other people, the last thing you want is to come across as needy because that certainly will kill the attraction.If she's reciprocating the kino and seems interested then just keep doing what you're doing. It seems that logistics may be an issue, but we can't really help out with that without knowing the specifics. Basically try to get a sex location and it seems to be on. And in this case I don't think any sort of 'boyfriend destroyers' are necessary; just act like he doesn't exist. He's not even in the same country! |
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| Author: | mmg [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 7:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: How not to kill attraction... |
She wants the best of both worlds, she has a boyfriend which provides her the routine & comfort (like a McDonalds) and then she also wants the thrill of getting to know a new guy (like going to a new restaurant out of town). If you start becoming jealous, then you ruin the fantasy of her escaping the boyfriend/ girlfriend life. Kinda like ordering McDonalds at a fancy restaurant. Keep in mind why she's talking to you in the first place. A lot of guys become selfish and just think about what they want and don't take the girl into consideration. Play your part and give her what she wants and she will give you what you want. An unspoken mutual contract. Don't breach it !!! Hugo Moreno http://www.thinkandattractwoman.com |
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