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Author:  Pikeman85 [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 4:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Rich foreign girl - super confusing
So I met this girl on OkCupid. She says she is VERY relationship oriented and is ONLY looking for a LTR. As she seems like wife material and I'm almost 29, I am alright with that.

She went to Yale, she's now a law student at University of Michigan (like the 6th best law school) - smart girl.

She apparently comes from an elite central American family.

She's also pretty cute.

Anyway, we meet up at the bar, talk for an hour or so, light KINO, and she says that I'm not being aggressive enough. I immediately start making out with her, pretty roughly.

She asks me if I've ever fucked on the first date before. As I had, I said yes, and we decide to go to my car, trying to figure out logistics.

I decide to drive her to my apartment, about 30 minutes away. She balks at this, asks if we can stop. I say sure. We stop on main street in Ann Arbor, pretty much in plain sight.

She starts giving me head, and we quickly start fucking. She says this is the first time she has had sex in 4 months, and that she likes aggression, which is not a problem for me, that's what I do.

However, in the middle of this, she stops it, going on about what will we think if we get in a relationship and this is the first time we hook up, etc, etc.

I keep trying to escalate but with little success (we did start to have sex again at one point, briefly).

She asks me, out of ten, how likely I see a relationship with her. I tell her 4-7 out of 10.

She writes it on my car's windshield with her finger.

She also tries to get me to commit to her THAT NIGHT.

She finally says that she can't have sex because she has a device and it is hurting her (and she did, I felt it when I fingered her).

She then decides to go.

She texts me the next day with, "Morning", and I text her back a little, but it was Black Friday so I was shopping and tell her so.

I call her a few days later, the first words out of her mouth are, "I'm sick" and I ask her to hang out on a day and she has "a paper to write that day" (which is possible).

Anyway, we haven't talked since then, and that was on.. Sunday? I think.

Since our date she has deleted her OkCupid account, and we haven't talked since the phone call. But last time, we made plans way in advance, and she didn't contact me until the day of to confirm, with like a week or two no contact.



What the hell do I make of this? Extremely educated foreign rich girls are not my wheelhouse.
Author:  The_Inferno [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 4:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
Be careful with that. I had a girl do something similar to me. It turned out she had a boyfriend who was deployed in the military and was looking to cheat on him.
Author:  ConfidenceMatters [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 4:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
She was shit testing you like crazy!

And you failed.

Ultimate shit test. Never let a woman stop you from getting off... at least not without a blow job.
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 3:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
See, Confidence, I could see your perspective on this, but I'm not entirely convinced. It would make sense for her to shit test - she's cute and rich.
Author:  ConfidenceMatters [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 6:09 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
She likes aggression. Obviously you weren't aggressive enough. Hence she's no longer interested in you.
Author:  GamesSN [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
This sounds familiar...
Author:  GKS [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 7:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
Please throw away the used condoms YOURSELF! DO NOT trust her when she says she'll do it :D
Author:  Pikeman85 [ Tue Dec 10, 2013 12:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rich foreign girl - super confusing
She actually had a boyfriend (ish - she mentioned him on the date and how she wasn't very attracted to him)

I talked to her yesterday. Apparently I came off as an asshole womanizer and she's terrified of them (but in reality attracted and afraid of getting hurt). She yelled at me for several minutes over text.

Once I acted a little sweet, she warmed up entirely.

I just get the impression the girl is terrified of men dropping her, decided to settle for a beta, got bored, decided to upgrade, got scared of me, decided to return to beta.

I have a lot of experience with these type of girls. I like this one, so I don't see any actual issues here.
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