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Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 3:52 pm ]
Post subject:  help with analysis paralysis
Hey guys this is kind of a petty issue, but I'm sure others have had it I was wondering how you got past it.
Here's a specific example of it. I was talking to a girl on sunday that I really like (I've been keeping my head about me and my emotions in check) the convo ended abruptly when I got called back to work and couldn't talk anymore and stopped replying. So monday evening I txt her back picking up the convo where it left off sort of as an opener, and was gonna set something up shortly after. No reply, so after a while I got to analyzing it , and was like oh I should have texted sooner, I should have told her I had to go, I lost her, Stupid shit like that. Once I get my head back about me I'm like WTF I'm a grown ass man with a life why the fuck am I thinking like that. Thing is I have other girls I talk to I went out with another girl more so just a friend date I guess you'd say, but I like this girl that's why its bothering me I guess. She's done that before I suddenly stop texting then she doesn't reply to me kinda giving it back I think.

Any advice on the over analysis issue and the text issue is appreciated thnks!!
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:18 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
I think this should help you.

7-texting-mistakes-stolen-from-a-pro-vt137303.html.

Typically I never reopen with the 'same' conversation = boring.

When you get a 'No reply' blow it off, or you quickly get No Reply Syndrome:
The condition some Men get when they are text messaging a HB they just number closed whom does not respond for an extended period of time.

People with NRS will believe that the reason the person they are chatting to have not responded is because they were offended by a statement the NRS-victim said.

It is most commonly cured by a response from the person that wasn't responding before.
Usually because they were taking a shit, mowing the lawn, or some other mundane daily chore.

Sometimes this can elevate to hole-digging, when the NRS-victim feels they've REALLY screwed up.

This hole-digging in turn can lead to more NRS. This cycle can eventually lead to dementia.
Author:  AFCToTheMax [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
Don't do it. This is my advice.

You probably have too much free time to think about these things so get busy.
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
Thanks for the advice! That link was actually a confidence boost, because I really haven't made any of those mistakes. At least none worth mentioning there's been things I could have done differently or better, but nothings ever perfect.

I'm going to a firing range this friday so I figure I'll text her see if she wants to come out. And say something like I bet you hot holding a .38 ;)

Thing is I am busy and have a lot of things on the go, but when I meet a girl I actually like I tend to overthink everything its an sp of mine, but when I take a breath and relax I realize what I'm stressing about is really nothing.
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 6:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
Thanks again for the advice. I just made this a big issue in my head. I texted her a little while ago like nothing we're going out this saturday. Heywood you seem to be the man when it comes to phone game. Do you have any material on improving phone game both talk and text? I was doing well, but I feel like I've lost my edge.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 6:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
Keep it:

Light.

Humorous.

Sensual.


Maybe this will help as well;

sexting-vt169964.html
Author:  Gunfighter28 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 7:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: help with analysis paralysis
Cool man thanks! I just need to liven our convos up a bit. It started as flirting,teasing,intelligent convo. Now it seems like the fliriting and teasing has taken a back seat to intelligent convo, which isn't bad, but definitely need to get back to how it used to be.
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