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| Author: | bartm [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 6:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
alright, so I will give you the setting. There is a party, there is loud music. The guy takes the girl outside the salon where the party is. outside is a lobby area, and is quiet, and there are chairs. they sit there. now here is the part that pisses me off:they are there talking for 30 or more minutes. What in the HELL do they talk about for that long when I cant even talk for 30 seconds? |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 6:54 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Convo just rolls for some ppl. I went out with a girl for the 1st time the other day I we went to a nice place we were having a good time before I knew it we'd been hanging out for almost 4hrs. You gotta have social skills, but you also have to be interested in the person you're talking to. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Mon Dec 02, 2013 6:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
It's something that naturally will come to you with experience talking to people. I've been told so many times that I have "The Gift of Gab" but its really a skill... you develop it with time. I'd suggest watching something like "Curb Your Enthusiasm" and observe Larry David. The guy never shuts up. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Dec 02, 2013 7:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Quote: alright, so I will give you the setting. There is a party, there is loud music. The guy takes the girl outside the salon where the party is. outside is a lobby area, and is quiet, and there are chairs. they sit there.
Is this a joke? I could talk for 30+HOURS with an interesting girl. Of course, that talking would be before and after sex, but what do you mean? If you can't talk for 30 seconds you have serious issues you need to address.
now here is the part that pisses me off:they are there talking for 30 or more minutes. What in the HELL do they talk about for that long when I cant even talk for 30 seconds? |
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| Author: | hugge [ Mon Dec 02, 2013 8:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
If you want to succeed in seducing a woman you have to be able to keep her focus and talk for at least a couple of hours. I'm not in the mood to tell you how right now (because it requires a lot of writing), so I will stick to the short version: Go out and practice! |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 12:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Quote: It's something that naturally will come to you with experience talking to people. I've been told so many times that I have "The Gift of Gab" but its really a skill... you develop it with time.
Dude I used to watch Curb before going out to get in that cocky/funny talks forever mindset. Larry David is a good model for midgame.
I'd suggest watching something like "Curb Your Enthusiasm" and observe Larry David. The guy never shuts up. |
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| Author: | WGY [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 1:45 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Ever have a good friend that you could talk with for hours? Same thing. Stay off the juice tho. It seems to kill my game (little that I have). It dulls the mind unless you both start out sober and keep pace (while drinking). Then it gets silly and ... sexual sometimes. |
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 2:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
midgit porn??? honestly once you start talking and get outside of your own mind time flies by when you talk like it's nothing. Stop focusing on yourself and stop worrying about finding out what to talk about... you're a human and you already have the skills instilled in you, let go of expectations and enjoy it. |
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| Author: | fishnwomen [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 3:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
I like Majikal's advice to watch Larry David. He can talk about anything. Just don't try to emulate his complaining, but be able to make funny/ extreme comments without any hesitation. |
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| Author: | Eddie Fews [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 3:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Do you have friends? When you hang out with your friends at your house or theres.. what do you guys talk about for the hours that you spend together? If you had a girlfriend do you presume that you guys will be completely silent when you hang out with each other? This is life man, theres billions and billions of things to talk about. I could talk for years on end... I think you need to get out there, have conversations of your own and find out. |
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| Author: | maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 6:59 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
i like to ask her what her favorite position is and talk about making her wet |
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| Author: | R.C [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:31 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Most people do the same mistake everytime they try to hold a conversation. Instead of actually listening to what the other person says , while she's talking , all you're doing in your head is thinking "what am I gonna say next ?". Just a few days ago I met some new girl at a course. We spent 4 hours together. |
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| Author: | A.T [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 8:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
Quote: i like to ask her what her favorite position is and talk about making her wet
Try to read Natural Game by Gamblers and those RSD stuffs, sometimes people are not interested in you, or they just don't wanna talk. and maxtazm, are u picking up girls in China or U.S |
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| Author: | maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 11:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: what the hell do guys talk about for 30+ minutes? |
neither. |
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