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Author:  cunning_stunt [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 9:35 am ]
Post subject:  Should your appearence suit your game?
I am fairly short, but quite stocky, stubble and girls have always commented I look quite manly.
When I am on form.. swearing a little bit.. not answering questions properly and being alpha.. I do very well.
The minute my confidence isnt there and Im being mr nice etc.. I dont get attraction.
I know this could be argued as the same case for many guys out there.. but is it worse for a guy like me?..
I mean.. If I look alpha, does it mean that girls who are initially attracted to me expect that alpha personality or its just a dissapointment?
Author:  southern_gentlemangq [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 10:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should your appearence suit your game?
alot of girls are plain stupid im just being honest, they'll have a nice guy who will be faithful and treat them perfect but would want a guy who is a complete asshole

so to answer your question, YES it should....you said you're short and stocky so when you act alpha you look even more confident because you are being an alpha while not looking like one (sorry if that offended you) but when you act nice which many girl think means weak you look even weaker because of your appearance...i hope that makes sense
Author:  cunning_stunt [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 11:05 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should your appearence suit your game?
Quote:
alot of girls are plain stupid im just being honest, they'll have a nice guy who will be faithful and treat them perfect but would want a guy who is a complete asshole

so to answer your question, YES it should....you said you're short and stocky so when you act alpha you look even more confident because you are being an alpha while not looking like one (sorry if that offended you) but when you act nice which many girl think means weak you look even weaker because of your appearance...i hope that makes sense
Doesnt really make sense..
I am saying that I do look alpha. I may not be tall.. but I am of a stocky build, I have stubble, I have dark hair/eyes and I get told now and then by girls that I look like a real man's man.
The question I am asking is does my personality need to match my appearence in a girls eye.
Author:  hugge [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 11:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should your appearence suit your game?
About being "alpha"... It seems as if everybody has his own understanding what it means, and sometimes that picture might be wrong. I don't know what you mean by "alpha". Some think it means to be cocky and having tons of attidue, while others think it is more about being confident in a relaxed and laid-back way.

Girls are neither looking for a bad-ass gorilla-style alpha male or a soft mr wimpy nice guy. They are looking for a hybrid (think James Bond) - a man who is confident, intelligent, can give witty comments, who can stand up for himself while he is caring and has contact with his emotions. He should be gentle with the girl, but able to become a badass whenever a threat appears.

Was that even an answer to your question? :)
Author:  southern_gentlemangq [ Sun Dec 01, 2013 11:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Should your appearence suit your game?
oh basically no lol.....i read your question completly wrong.
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