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| Author: | tradie812 [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 9:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Reversal of Power! HELP |
Been seeing a HB9. We had sex for the first time last night! We have been seeing each other pretty much once a week on weekends for just over a month. I think i fucked up this morning as we were leaving and i need some help to reverse the situation. We both work and have commitments mid week, hence weekend meet ups. I opened my mouth and said something like 'i don't think i can wait till next week to see you again' I think she is content with the once a week and so i shouldn't act so needy. At the time i thought i was just playing at her, making her feel good. Dick! She said 'call me' or something like that. I'm a dominant male and i want power of relationship. Whats you guys advice if i called or texted and said something like 'I'm busy for the rest of the weekend. Next weekend sounds good, don't miss me to much' something like that. Or do you guys have any suggestions on what to do asap?!?! thanks |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 10:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
I don't see any big deal here. Just continue that way (seeing her once a week). Guessing it's a fuck buddy, no feelings. |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 10:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
I agree with the above it may seem like a big deal to you, but as an outsider looking in I don't see a problem as long as now that you've hooked up with her you don't start blowing up her phone and getting needy. Just be cool you're stressing and she probably hasn't given it a second thought. |
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| Author: | tradie812 [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
yeah i agree mate. look there is feelings. She told me last night that i should let her know if I'm seeing or going to see anyone else. So basically i take that as her wanting to be exclusive. I do like her i just don't want to be needy as she is very attractive. I feel like i always text and/or call her, like she never initiates. I want to reverse that a little. Is there any need guys to be gaming now that Ive had sex or should i just call and do whatever! Reason i ask is usually in this case where Ive had sex, the girl is clingy and all, this one is different. but thanks for the above comments guys |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 11:01 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
Quote: yeah i agree mate. look there is feelings. She told me last night that i should let her know if I'm seeing or going to see anyone else. So basically i take that as her wanting to be exclusive. I do like her i just don't want to be needy as she is very attractive. I feel like i always text and/or call her, like she never initiates. I want to reverse that a little. Is there any need guys to be gaming now that Ive had sex or should i just call and do whatever! Reason i ask is usually in this case where Ive had sex, the girl is clingy and all, this one is different. but thanks for the above comments guys
No worries mate. Some girls just don't txt first. I'm seeing a girl now for the 1st while I had to iniate everything that's now changed. I had the same feeling as you about should I txt or will it look needy it was a real sticking point with me, so what I did is googled how to text without appearing needy. Sounds stupid, but there's some good material to read, and it gave me I guess you'd say a few social techniques for getting past my SP. But the all around key to not being needy is just be less invested in the relationship than she is.
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| Author: | tradie812 [ Sat Nov 30, 2013 12:07 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
Very true. As bad as it sounds its almost too true. 'The Power of a Relationship Lies in Whoever Cares Less'. I have read through the needy contact techniques and will continue to do so. Basically in my situation, i might just text her and not call. ill give a flirty compliment about last night and then tell her I'm busy next week till x night. Unless you guys have any other suggestions? thanks for the posts |
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| Author: | Gunfighter28 [ Sat Nov 30, 2013 12:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
Personally I wouldn't worry about the flirty compliment I'd just let it be until the next you see her and then show her remember actions speak louder than words. How you decide to show her is up to you though. |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Nov 30, 2013 6:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Reversal of Power! HELP |
This girl is trying to make you go exclusive but only giving you access 1x/week. Be sure ur cool w/ that. |
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