Hi Forum,
When i was 16 years old i had a friend who had a little sister, she kind of had a crush on me back then but she was 12 so i only thought of it as "cute".
However, i am 21 now and she is 16 (17 in 1 month) and i found her by accident on Facebook and added her. She then sends me multiple messages on Facebook which ended with her saying "Give me your number talking on here is annoying".
A thing to remember is that i am from The Netherlands and the whole age thing here compared to USA is different and less frowned upon id say... The legal age here is 16 Still im not really sure if this is okay for me to do
Ill cut out and type some "interesting" parts from our conversation
Her: How old are you?
Me: Guess
Her: 19?
Me: 21
Her: omg really
Her: ok nice x
Her: How old do you think i am?
Her: Oh wait you can't see my picture right
Her: Dont you think its weird talking to me?
Me: No i can't see you, send me a picture
Me: Weird?
Her: Look at my facebook picture
Her: Yes because i am the sister of your friend
Me: 17/18 years? (I knew she was 16 btw)
Her: Thanks, almost 17. Im still young age wise
Me: Age wise yes, but you seem like you act very mature, or am i wrong?
Her: Thats correct, people say i act more mature than my age
Her: Weren't you dating *Ex Gf* back then?
Me: Yes but it was a mistake, i was young and didn't like her but still dated her (Maybe shouldn't have said this)
Her: Dick move! If i knew a boy did that to me i would have hit him h!
Me: You seem dangerous, i better watch out
Her: Haha if you do nothing wrong you have nothing to worry about honey (honey? wtf.)
Her: My shoulder hurts reallyyy bad
(At this point i wasn't sure how to respond because i just came out of a 2yr relationship so my textgame and stuff is really bad, so i asked a friend to help me out here, he helped me with some responses)
Me: What did you do?
Her: I fell at the sidewalk , it still hurts
Me: I don't know much about shoulder injuries but most of the time a massage would help.
Her: Are you going to massage me then?
Me: Only if it stays at your shoulders, i don't want angry parents on my back
Her: Haha yes you don't want my dad angry, but if i want you to massage me then he has nothing to say about it right
Me: You think so?
Her: Yes ofcourse, its not like he's gonna check me or anything
Her: He only asks what happened afterwards, but he's not going to forbid me if i do something that i want myself
Me: So something is gonna happen?
Her: Im not going to tell you that
Me: Well in that case i can massage your whole back
Her: Only if i want to !
Me: You're right, maybe its better if we stick to shoulders.
Her: haha we'll see
Her: We don't even know each other really
Her: Only saw each other a couple times and said hi thats it
Me: You're right, and still i would have had to take massage classes and those take a looong time.
Her: Im pretty good at massages
Me: Perhaps you should teach me then
Her: Yes sure
Her: How tall are you btw?
Me: 6'1 alpha male
Her: What?
Me: 6'1
Her: Thats pretty big, i am 5'2 myself and im not gonna grow anymore
Me: I have a poker tournament to attend so im going to turn off my mobile you midget, x
Her: Geeeez
Her: Sure then ill go sleep
Her: Goodluck x
So guys what do you think? Is this age thing really bad? I kinda feel weird about it, like im not 100% comfortable with it, but still... I guess i just need some advice on how to proceed or not to proceed lol.
Thanks in advance