hey hey, heres my situation.
i work in the fitness industry and an old gym member (HB
attended my boxing classes regularly that i ran. We became an acquaintance so i would speak to her. I attended a party last week and it just happened that she was there. I had to use this opportunity to my advantage and i did. I engaged all hot friends then throughout the night flirted ioi's and kino. Just when i was going to ask her out, she asks me out. perfect, easy!date 1: I had a spare few hours the very next night and so we went on a date! i took her to a kwirky bar where there are not many people, great laid back environment, games like connect four, jenga, activities etc. Flirting and conversation was great! we kissed mid way through and at the end after i dropped her off to her car.
date 2: 4 days later, i was at the shops so i asked her to help me out. She came we went through the shops for a little, got pancakes for dinner then i took her into town. We went bowling, had a couple games of pool. conversation was great. not much flirting. We kissed again alone in the car park for a while. i escalated and tested her comfort level. touching and kissing in certain areas etc. she seemed fine with my hands holding and grabbing her in places, chest, body, side if breast, legs, bottom. i didnt escalate as far as sex genital
date 3: hear is the senario!
during date two i said that theres a chance im free in 2 days time. she was all good with that. no texts have been sent or received the next day after date 2. Id like to move into deep comfort then ofcourse seduction. something is being held back. she talks alot ill admit and its difficult to create a good mood for flirting and kissing. Maby the situation has been to public. both times we have kissed though i broke through her personal barrier and tried to create mood. she gets shy and asks if im trying to kiss her knowing that its going to happen. then she kisses me and it begins. i like to move quickly but something is holding me back. We both live with our parents.
What would be the best way to communicate then date her for the third time. i could try to get her to my brothers house while his gone out for a couple hours? most of my past girls were alot easier in the sense where they live alone, or they were kinky or they were up for car sex etc. this HB 8 seems different. i seem to know her better than the two dates we have been on i can see her as someone i like. my problem is ive never liked a girl enough to want more than sex so this experience is new for me. Any suggestions or info shoot it my way. cheers