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Author:  singer96 [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 2:56 am ]
Post subject:  Being Friend-Zoned isn't actually that bad

since I've been young I've always found it easy to build rapport and become friends with a girl but i wasn't always that good at escalating things sexually , when i found out about game i was pretty badly in the friend zone with one particular girl. im not in the friend zone with her anymore for one reason . and that reason is i told her bout game , i taught her all the stuff i was learning as i was learning it , kept her updated on how my progress was going and basically i was treating her as thought she were a friend of mine who was a guy . she is the only girl in my life that knows about game so im not saying tell every girl about game before you think thats what im telling you to do . but basically i turned her into the ultimate wing . i already have pre-selection when i go out with her and she can tell me ioi's i miss when im in set. but you're all wondering how i got out of the dreded FZ . well the only way to run game on a girl that know game is ... well dont run game on her . at all . it wont work .

i used gamblers friendzone destroyer technique ( you'll find that on youtube) to get out pf it .because that was the one thing i didnt teach her. game is all pretty common sense at the end of the day . and guys trust your instinct with these things , it usually is right !

Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 3:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being Friend-Zoned isn't actually that bad

You can view the friendzone in two ways.

1: A girl who doesn't want to fuck me
2: A girl that I have rapport with and i easily can isolate

What do you need to F-close a total stranger? Rapport, time, logistics, isolation. Walk up to a stranger you start at 0, you are are 0% of the way to fucking her.

With the friendzone you already have ticked half the boxes. You have rapport, she gives you her time, logistics might be sorted out, and you can easily isolate. So with a stranger you are at 0%, but in the friendzone you are at 70%.

The secret to getting out of the friendzone is merely finishing off the last 30%, you are usually just some tactful escalation away from completing the 100%.

If you take a step back and re-evaluate the situation, it doesn't seem so bad. There is a pretty good chance that she WANTS you to escalate. But you have this self defeating belief that it wont work or respond badly. Most guys end up in tge friendzone purely because of no escalation or inconsistent or badly executed escalation. If you escalate, escalate well and be persistant, you will probably get want you want. She WANTS somebody to turn her on, and you're already there.

This has worked for me. In the friendzone and i go home one day and calmly re-evaluate. What do I want, am I do the thongs I should be to achieve this goal, if not what should I do, if I dont change my behavior I will not progress, next time I see her im going to be a man and escalate like hell.

Author:  Monsignor Crisanto [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 5:50 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being Friend-Zoned isn't actually that bad

Letting girls friendzone you is a passive thing.

Be active. You should friendzone all of the girls you're sarging first. And then isolate them one by one. Escalate. F-close.

It isn't rocket science.

Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Fri Nov 08, 2013 7:34 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Being Friend-Zoned isn't actually that bad

With girls in your vague social circle or at work, yes a brief "friendzone" period is the best way. Also with girls who you already have social proof with for eg friends of a girl you hooked up with.

The beauty of total strangers is you can skip the "friendzone formalities" of groups.

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