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Author:  MrKingSpread [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:55 am ]
Post subject:  What's the deal with this girl?

Hi Guys,
So to cut to the chase i met a girl out at a club last week we got on well, kissed, danced, exchanged numbers etc. Texted her a couple of times since then and we arranged to meet up on Sunday (i was going to the market as i always do to get some food and said she should tag along).

So we met up on Sunday, again everything was cool, got on well, good chemistry, i would say that i could have initiated more kino during the "date" by holding her hand as we were walking around or something but i was unsure of this as i thought she may think i was moving a bit fast...so we went to the market as planned, then back to my apartment to leave off my food, then out for lunch. She was meeting a friend of hers afterwards in town so as we left i kissed her and said we should meet up again this week, to which she said yes.

Upto now everything was fine, i texted her on Monday picking up on a topic we talked about on Sunday and we got to talking about going to the cinema..
Her last text to me (there is some banter before this but don't want to type it all out: "Well if you're lucky i might even let you treat me to one and buy me popcorn to along with it lol i love musical films :) x"
Upto then i had joked that she should treat me to a cinema trip, so i replied, "Looking forward to this film you're taking me to see, tomorrow? (accidental, i had meant Wednesday) And food too!? Spoilt! x"

Those texts were sent Monday night, and since then i haven't heard from her :S
So what should be my plan here? I don't really get why she'd be keen and then completely fall silent... is it just a waiting game now? Maybe the best shot is to wait till closer to the weekend and see if she has any plans then?

Anyway, cheers in advance if you read that and can give me some advice!

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 7:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the deal with this girl?

Wait it out man..

She'll turn up..They always do.

Author:  MrKingSpread [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 8:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the deal with this girl?

She replied shortly after you posted this Joey :P
Seems i'm just a tad impatient...
Had a look around here for some advice too and the key really is not to over think these things.... if she wants to reply she'll reply regardless of whether you do or don't text her again...and probably more likely if the latter!

Just a follow up question...i hate playing these games of waiting to reply etc. but if it's what has to be done then so be it....i'm thinking i now won't reply till tomorrow lunch break... is there a good rule of thumb regarding this? She made me wait almost two days, surely it can't always be healthy to do the same/mirror her patterns?

Author:  Eddie Fews [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the deal with this girl?

Quote:
She replied shortly after you posted this Joey :P
Seems i'm just a tad impatient...
Had a look around here for some advice too and the key really is not to over think these things.... if she wants to reply she'll reply regardless of whether you do or don't text her again...and probably more likely if the latter!

Just a follow up question...i hate playing these games of waiting to reply etc. but if it's what has to be done then so be it....i'm thinking i now won't reply till tomorrow lunch break... is there a good rule of thumb regarding this? She made me wait almost two days, surely it can't always be healthy to do the same/mirror her patterns?
I've always been a big fan of doing what I wanted. When you aren't needy; there is no way to send out "needy/desperate" energy to anyone. Unless you're a great actor of course. I don't calibrate(consciously at least), I don't do tactics, or follow any "pua" rules. I strictly do what ever I want, because it is never coming from a place of desperations. I have options; and have no problem moving on to a new girl no matter how much I've invested in one or she's invested in me.

Now it's rare that'll I'll even pay a girl attention that took 2 days to reply to me so I may not be the guy to ask on this. I just wouldn't pay her any mind unless she made a second or third attempt at getting my attention.

Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Thu Nov 07, 2013 3:25 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What's the deal with this girl?

just don't over-think it and don't stress too much on the outcome. Obviously you've learned a lot of PUA techniques now it's time to forget about all that shit and just mix it in with your own personality. Just be comfortable! Who cares about the outcome? If she doesn't text back you'll live... there's always another girl around the corner... (and by saying that I don't mean she's a prostitute....)

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