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Author:  killer02 [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 10:13 am ]
Post subject:  No responses for texts
I have been setting up a date with a girl from work, she was pretty keen when we went out for a corporate party this weekend, I got her number, texted her, took her a day to reply. I followed up and proposed the day of the meeting, then after a day of silence I sent another text saying sth like "looks like your project is getting hectic - no time to respond. Here are some funny pics to cheer u up during gloomy project nights". Sent that last night, no response so far... Should i followup at work or leave it?
Author:  LordBiron [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 3:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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I have been setting up a date with a girl from work, she was pretty keen when we went out for a corporate party this weekend, I got her number, texted her, took her a day to reply. I followed up and proposed the day of the meeting, then after a day of silence I sent another text saying sth like "looks like your project is getting hectic - no time to respond. Here are some funny pics to cheer u up during gloomy project nights". Sent that last night, no response so far... Should i followup at work or leave it?
You are texting her way to much. Honestly if I text a broad and it takes her a day or more to respond I normally drop her unless I know for a fact she is busy. You probably came off as needy and broads don't like that also, none of my business but just a good practice do not shit where you eat. Just find a new girl
Author:  R.C [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
How exactly is texting her 3 times with a day inbetween count as "Texting way too much ?"
Also ,judging from his example text he wasn't being needy at all , it was actually pretty good.


If she takes more than a day to answer your texts (considering they're not AFC omega texts) , she probably genuinely is very busy.
I'd suggest you stop for now and try later.

I'd also REALLY suggest you don't date people you work with , OP.
Author:  LordBiron [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 4:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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How exactly is texting her 3 times with a day inbetween count as "Texting way too much ?"
Also ,judging from his example text he wasn't being needy at all , it was actually pretty good.


If she takes more than a day to answer your texts (considering they're not AFC omega texts) , she probably genuinely is very busy.
I'd suggest you stop for now and try later.

I'd also REALLY suggest you don't date people you work with , OP.

If she was interested she would have texted him back, from MY experience if a broad doesn't text you back she isn't interested. So by texting her more than one with no response does come off as needy.
Author:  killer02 [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:01 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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How exactly is texting her 3 times with a day inbetween count as "Texting way too much ?"
Also ,judging from his example text he wasn't being needy at all , it was actually pretty good.


If she takes more than a day to answer your texts (considering they're not AFC omega texts) , she probably genuinely is very busy.
I'd suggest you stop for now and try later.

I'd also REALLY suggest you don't date people you work with , OP.

If she was interested she would have texted him back, from MY experience if a broad doesn't text you back she isn't interested. So by texting her more than one with no response does come off as needy.
I get you and I have the same feeling... It just seems a bit weird that on one day someone seems really keen on meeting up and then changes mind all of a sudden...
Author:  LordBiron [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 5:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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How exactly is texting her 3 times with a day inbetween count as "Texting way too much ?"
Also ,judging from his example text he wasn't being needy at all , it was actually pretty good.


If she takes more than a day to answer your texts (considering they're not AFC omega texts) , she probably genuinely is very busy.
I'd suggest you stop for now and try later.

I'd also REALLY suggest you don't date people you work with , OP.

If she was interested she would have texted him back, from MY experience if a broad doesn't text you back she isn't interested. So by texting her more than one with no response does come off as needy.
I get you and I have the same feeling... It just seems a bit weird that on one day someone seems really keen on meeting up and then changes mind all of a sudden...

She's a girl haha they are weird creatures, just try talking to other girls
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 8:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
Slow down killer.

If you have to reach out to a woman more than twice, the chances are you don't have many attractive women in your life.

You're like a puppy trying to please her and she has done nothing.. Not even answered your text. Scrap this one and get on with your life for now buddy.If she comes back around, deal with it then. I'd just suggest expanding your options a bit.

Women are emotional creatures, meaning they do what they feel in the moment for the most part. Especially when it comes to social interactions. It happens all the time; 75% of phone numbers turn out to be nothing.
Author:  killer02 [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
She did reply inally saying "Oh yeah, the new project is horrible, working until 9 p.m. every day... Why didnt you tell me it was gonna be that hard :p I loved the funny pics you sent to me, lol". What should I make out of it and how to proceed? Should I text her for a while and then bring the drinks invitation up again?
Author:  n2thevoid [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 10:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
Nah leave it a few days then touch base as if nothing happened
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 2:48 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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I have been setting up a date with a girl from work, she was pretty keen when we went out for a corporate party this weekend, I got her number, texted her, took her a day to reply. I followed up and proposed the day of the meeting, then after a day of silence I sent another text saying sth like "looks like your project is getting hectic - no time to respond. Here are some funny pics to cheer u up during gloomy project nights". Sent that last night, no response so far... Should i followup at work or leave it?

mistake 1 from work, you don't shit were you eat.

mistake number 2 too needy boarderline creepy.

mistake number 3 lack of calibration.

You need to mirror the women text.

if you text and she does not respond and you keep texting, you are pretty much in no recover land, next.
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 3:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
Calling out a woman when she doesn't reply is bad. I gamed a woman who was a bad texter despite a good 1st meeting. But, I still got a bj on 2nd meeting and f-closed on 3rd... even though I texted her 2x in a row multiple times. How?

I did not ever call her out for not replying, or "did you miss my text" etc. I simply ignored the fact that she didn't respond to my text asking her to hang out and just asked again a couple days later. As if the last text I sent simply did not exist. No transition, no explanation, nothing. I had to do this after the 1st and after the 2nd.
Author:  killer02 [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 7:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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Calling out a woman when she doesn't reply is bad. I gamed a woman who was a bad texter despite a good 1st meeting. But, I still got a bj on 2nd meeting and f-closed on 3rd... even though I texted her 2x in a row multiple times. How?

I did not ever call her out for not replying, or "did you miss my text" etc. I simply ignored the fact that she didn't respond to my text asking her to hang out and just asked again a couple days later. As if the last text I sent simply did not exist. No transition, no explanation, nothing. I had to do this after the 1st and after the 2nd.
Ok, so how does this not sound needy then? I am getting a bit confused here - a lot of posts saying you cannot write to a girl if she does not respons (what do you then - forget her?) because you look needy. Then you say if she does not respond, you can simply wait out and send similar text again, a couple of days later. Is 2 the maximum number of texts you send asking a girl out and THEN you forget her?
Author:  TheFury [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 8:41 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
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Calling out a woman when she doesn't reply is bad. I gamed a woman who was a bad texter despite a good 1st meeting. But, I still got a bj on 2nd meeting and f-closed on 3rd... even though I texted her 2x in a row multiple times. How?

I did not ever call her out for not replying, or "did you miss my text" etc. I simply ignored the fact that she didn't respond to my text asking her to hang out and just asked again a couple days later. As if the last text I sent simply did not exist. No transition, no explanation, nothing. I had to do this after the 1st and after the 2nd.
Ok, so how does this not sound needy then? I am getting a bit confused here - a lot of posts saying you cannot write to a girl if she does not respons (what do you then - forget her?) because you look needy. Then you say if she does not respond, you can simply wait out and send similar text again, a couple of days later. Is 2 the maximum number of texts you send asking a girl out and THEN you forget her?
(1) There are no hard and fast rules when it comes to dating, for the most part
(2) Just because I gave an example where it worked doesn't mean it usually works or even works more than on fluke occasions
(3) What I was trying to demonstrate is that if you ARE going to be needy, don't be so blatantly needy by saying shit like "did you miss my text" or "looks like you are too busy to respond ;)" etc.
(4) I don't think I ever said not to text twice in a row? I only said odds are she isn't interested.
Author:  skills360 [ Wed Nov 06, 2013 8:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: No responses for texts
Quote:
I have been setting up a date with a girl from work, she was pretty keen when we went out for a corporate party this weekend, I got her number, texted her, took her a day to reply. I followed up and proposed the day of the meeting, then after a day of silence I sent another text saying sth like "looks like your project is getting hectic - no time to respond. Here are some funny pics to cheer u up during gloomy project nights". Sent that last night, no response so far... Should i followup at work or leave it?

I forgot to tell you, that women experience what is call "state change". In other words at the party she may have been into you and interested. But when she got home, and she had to deal with work life etc... she may have cool off. Also, she may have been interested, and your needy vibes, may have helped changed her mind, specially with the multiple texts.
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