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| Author: | hohomerryjingle [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 6:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Friend Hookup |
Hey so the other night my friend and I got really drunk and I ended up sleeping over her place and making out with her. She made the first move and at the beginning of the night she said lets get really drunk (made me think, hmm...wonder where this could lead). She is five years older than me and way more experienced in the sack. I obviously do not have a lot of experience or else I wouldn't be asking questions on puaforum.com. Now that we made out, I do not know what my next step is? I texted her about leaving her door open and now I'm thinking about joking saying "next time we'll shut the door". But is that too forward, to insinuate that there will be a next time? I would love some advice. Thanks. |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 9:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Hookup |
Nearly same thing happened to me, with the same phrase "let's get really drunk" and she was a friend of one year, a close one too. Just don't make a big deal out of it and it'll keep happening, try to hit the friends with benefits and you'll be both satisfied. (unless you want a relationship). Just act casual like you've done this a million times before, she'll feel more comfortable around you. |
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| Author: | lukeyx [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 9:52 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Hookup |
Why didn't you escalate after the make out? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 10:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Hookup |
You should have fucked her man... I was in the same situation a few years back except she was 30 and I was 20. We got wasted, I got really drunk and said I was going to sleep in her bed. Went there clothed and she got in bed beside me. She started talking to me said I could kiss her so I did. I ended up escalating it quickly. Fucked her that night. I was an AFC, knew nothing of PUA or it's existence and I knew where it was going and where to take it. Why didn't you fuck her? Fuck man. Whatever... She wanted to fuck and you failed. Just ignore it and wait to get fucked again next time. If she brings it up just say "Yeah, that was crazy." and pay no attention to it. If you like the girl and she likes you and wants a serious talk just be open to whatever but don't be too serious or too into her upfront. Wait for the next "Let's get fucking twisted" night then fuck her. Like really, FUCK HER. |
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| Author: | hohomerryjingle [ Tue Nov 05, 2013 6:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Friend Hookup |
Of course I tried to escalate it. She shut me down. She said let's keep it waste up (or something like that). So everyone calm down about me not fucking her. I would have if I could have. But all she wanted was to make out. |
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