PUA Forum :: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?

What is she like around you? Does she treat other guys similarly? If she does flirt with guys does she pay special attention to you and go out of her way to touch you more so than she would others or flirt with you differently?

Flirting is often a defence mechanism. They flirt around to shroud their interest in a person so that if they're caught out they can quickly take it back and act as if they do it with everyone for fear of rejection or a less than desirable outcome. You have to be careful because most women who flirt so openly and do so with a lot of people end up having a lot of problems and still need a lot of attention.

Also, have you been around her alone outside of college yet? Like have you asked her to hang out with just the two of you?

Author:	lidsfitteds [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 7:00 pm ]
Post subject:	How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
I don't mean from friendzoned to boyfriend (where the girl is totally not into you.) I mean if the girl is probably into you but you guys are friends, and you've never tried to make a move. My situation with this girl is I'm like fairly certain she's into me(she'll like flirt with me [use kino, say i look cute today, etc]) and we've been friends for 2 years but I've never done anything about it. We're not even super close (so it's not like the whole 'you're like a brother to me situation.') Anyway the reason I'm not entirely sure if she's into me is she might just be one of those attention seeking girls who just flirt around but aren't actually interested in you. But I figure, I'll never know if she's into me unless I try. Anyway so how do I go about this: So should I ask her if she wants to hang out after school or after class or something. Or...? Any advice?

Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 8:55 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
Accentuate your cock area like these: When a girl is into you, you'll catch her looking several times at your cock area and then clearing her throat or swallowing her saliva. When you catch her looking, smile at her, look into her eyes and then look at her pussy area and then back to her eyes. When she smiles and looks again at your cock area, offer your hand, take hers and whisper in her ear, "Let's go."

Author:	lidsfitteds [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
@Hellhound Trolling? lol did you look up: guys with bulge in pants or you had those pictures handy? Lol

Author:	GamesSN [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 9:16 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
What is she like around you? Does she treat other guys similarly? If she does flirt with guys does she pay special attention to you and go out of her way to touch you more so than she would others or flirt with you differently? Flirting is often a defence mechanism. They flirt around to shroud their interest in a person so that if they're caught out they can quickly take it back and act as if they do it with everyone for fear of rejection or a less than desirable outcome. You have to be careful because most women who flirt so openly and do so with a lot of people end up having a lot of problems and still need a lot of attention. Also, have you been around her alone outside of college yet? Like have you asked her to hang out with just the two of you?

Author:	lidsfitteds [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 9:52 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
Quote: What is she like around you? Does she treat other guys similarly? If she does flirt with guys does she pay special attention to you and go out of her way to touch you more so than she would others or flirt with you differently? Flirting is often a defence mechanism. They flirt around to shroud their interest in a person so that if they're caught out they can quickly take it back and act as if they do it with everyone for fear of rejection or a less than desirable outcome. You have to be careful because most women who flirt so openly and do so with a lot of people end up having a lot of problems and still need a lot of attention. Also, have you been around her alone outside of college yet? Like have you asked her to hang out with just the two of you? I haven't seen her interaction with many other guys but with the ones I have seen yeah she kinda does act the same way to other guys (like flirty) which makes me think she's just seeking attention. Also, I haven't been around her for a prolonged period of time. Im a highschool junior not in college so there are 8 periods stacked in a day so hanging out after class is kinda hard, unless I see her after 8th period, because we have to go to the next class, so basically no I have not been alone with her for a long period of time (or even an hour ish.) I figure she might just be seeking attention but I'll never know unless I find out (and even if she does reject me, it's not a huge deal.) I'll probably see her inbetween one of my classes tomorrow so I'll just ask her if she wants to hang out instead of going to class (I have a substitute tomorrow in that class anyway, so no lectures on cutting please) and then hang out in the library or a pizza place nearby or something.

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Author:	Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 10:29 pm ]
Post subject:	Re: How do you go from friend to boyfriend anyway?
You came here asking for advice and so you were given field tested advice. There's a tool called the Google search engine. If you're still too focused on the verbals rather than the nonverbal aspects of seduction, then you're missing a lot of opportunities to get laid.