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| Author: | KFox [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 1:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
Hello everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 year now and I'm trying to learn about the game. My goal of joining this forum is to boost my confidence and learn a new skill set. I have always had trouble approaching and talking to other people. Mostly girls. I am new to the site and I can say that the stuff I have been reading about in my opinion has been 10 times better then any self help forum I have ever been on. My confidence has been at an all time high since getting into the game. Now back to the question, where do you guys think the line between harmless flirting and cheating is? Obviously a SNL would be considered cheating while saying hi to an attractive girl is perfectly acceptable. I ask this question because I don't want to cheat on her but I still want to improve my skill at approaching people (guys and girls). In my opinion, I think a phone close is the limit as long as the girl is aware that it's going to be non sexual. What are your thoughts? |
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| Author: | GamesSN [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
The first step of cheating is allowing yourself to be put in a situation which allows it to happen. That's cheating in my opinion. Honestly, if you're happy in your relationship and you can see yourself with your girlfriend I wouldn't look to attention from other women. Either your current girlfriend isn't giving you the attention you need and puts you down or you have mental issues which are the reason for your low confidence. If you're in a happy relationship you shouldn't need to seek the attention of other women to fill gaps. Having said that... More specifically it's generally bad to take a random chicks number. You shouldn't do it unless she's a friend of a friend sort of thing. If you met her at a bar you're asking for trouble, buddy. |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 6:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
My definition of cheating is oral or sex. If my girlfriend gets plastered and kisses some random in a club I barely care, its still my cock shes riding, if she sucks him off or fucks him totally different story. But that's just me other people look at it differently. There's this grey area between flirting and sex i say fuck the grey area its not cheating unless sex is involved. Give some people some leeway. If someone says "she cheated on me" everyone presumes sex, so that's what cheating is, sex. Not kissing. As far as society goes kissing and/or heavy kino is probably where the line isn |
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| Author: | Xoved [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 8:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
It seems like someone is either getting played by a girl or is not happy in his relationship. If you're not happy, just leave. If you are happy in your relationship, there's no need to fill gaps by taking some random girl's number. That will make your girlfriend feel like you are going to cheat on her soon. There's no "limit" for a relationship in my opinion, it's all about intentions. If you are taking numbers for making friends/favors, it's ok. However, if you have any other intentions than that, it's a different story. |
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| Author: | n2thevoid [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 8:51 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
IF it's not something you'd be able to tell your girl about, you know you're up to no good. |
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| Author: | Il-Cavalieri [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 2:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
Keep your girl in the loop. If she asks you to stop, then stop. |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 3:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
Slightly off topic but some girls will half let you get away with cheating. Actually some become even more attracted to you if you do. In a way cheating is social proof, or a DHV. A lot of girls don't mind if you cheat as long as you "go home to them" at night. |
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| Author: | Jay (Majik) [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 3:28 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Where is the line when you have girlfriend |
Quote: Slightly off topic but some girls will half let you get away with cheating. Actually some become even more attracted to you if you do. In a way cheating is social proof, or a DHV.
^^^ This.A lot of girls don't mind if you cheat as long as you "go home to them" at night. It really doesn't matter what we consider cheating. In my opinion, it's only cheating if you get caught. What matters is what you and your girlfriend consider to be "cheating." If you ask me, if a girl is gonna get mad at you just talking to another girl, she's off her fucking rocker and you should end that relationship anyways. |
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