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Author:  Negtar [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 1:32 am ]
Post subject:  SEXTING diffidulties..
What's up, how are you guys

So I've been text gaming (ofc congruent physical escalation, too) this HB8.
But whenever I make attempts to sext with her, she seems to get too shy to talk about it.
She sends me really typical LMRs.."I don't know you well yet ;) hehe" "Haha:) don't scary me:)"
It's not even like she's not into me..she is REALLY attracted to me.

However, the odd part is, we have already escalated so much; we are at the very last stage in comfort phase, and shifting to seduction phase just seems so difficult with this girl.
-We've made out several times over 2 night outs.
- She started touching my body (chest, lats and nipples) UNDER the shirt while making out.
(she also admitted she was thinking something "naughty" while her hands were on me.)
- She's alright with me touching her breast, bums and inner thigh..

I believe she's shy about the topic 'sex' because she's a virgin, any opinion??

P.S. Sorry mates, I drank a bit. I apologise for horrible writing, but please bear with me:)
Author:  R.C [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 8:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Some people just aren't good at sexting. Like some aren't good at talking dirty during sex or those who can't do phone sex.


That's usually people who tend to take themselves too seriously.
Author:  Crypto [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 3:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Give us a couple of examples of some typical "sexting" messages you have sent her trying to open her up a bit! Often times people think sexting is "I want to put my hands down your pants and feel my way inside of you" rather than "I like the small of your back, it is one of my favorite spots". Examples will help us understand your issues.


Peace...
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 4:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
What's up, how are you guys

So I've been text gaming (ofc congruent physical escalation, too) this HB8.
But whenever I make attempts to sext with her, she seems to get too shy to talk about it.
She sends me really typical LMRs.."I don't know you well yet ;) hehe" "Haha:) don't scary me:)"
It's not even like she's not into me..she is REALLY attracted to me.

However, the odd part is, we have already escalated so much; we are at the very last stage in comfort phase, and shifting to seduction phase just seems so difficult with this girl.
-We've made out several times over 2 night outs.
- She started touching my body (chest, lats and nipples) UNDER the shirt while making out.
(she also admitted she was thinking something "naughty" while her hands were on me.)
- She's alright with me touching her breast, bums and inner thigh..

I believe she's shy about the topic 'sex' because she's a virgin, any opinion??

P.S. Sorry mates, I drank a bit. I apologise for horrible writing, but please bear with me:)
I would not recommend sexting with a virgin or fucking a virgin(drama down the line), but is my opinion, i teach sexting in this post:

the-skills-secrets-to-text-game-vt138170.html
Author:  Negtar [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 4:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
I would not recommend sexting with a virgin or fucking a virgin(drama down the line), but is my opinion, i teach sexting in this post:

the-skills-secrets-to-text-game-vt138170.html[/quote]

Hahaha bro, actually I read your post long ago, and I used what you had used, but changed a little..

I thought the texting was going nowhere, so I felt the need for "spicing" it up.
Also I wanted her to think me in a sexual way, so I used your 'hot dream' routine.
The morning after we had made out in the club, I sent these:
Me: "Naughty girl, what were you thinkin' when your hands were all over me last night? (she touched my nipples and chest UNDER the t-shirt)"
HB: "Im shy..I won't tell you ;* muah xxx"
Me: "pfft I think I was thinking the same... btw I dreamed of you tonight"
HB: "really? you won't believe it but I saw you in my dreams a few times..#^^#"
Me: "Did you? You were mostly naked in my dreams, but I'm not going to tell you, you will get sooo confused. (she says she gets confused whenever I say something sexual, she's shy.)
HB: Ohhh) Maybe...but I want to know.
Me: "pft okay, it was your choice
I was doing something at home (this part was really blurry, I don't remember what I was doing)
and then I hear a doorbell
I see you in a black dress, with your hair down
You jumped on me and started kissing me like the world's going to end in an hour
and then, again blurry section which I don't remember much
and then we went to the kitchen
I remember kissing your neck, against the wall
we went into my bedroom and you started doing what you did in the club;) hands in the shirt
we took off one by one, and finally you wrapped your legs around me
and I woke up, it was too HOT."
HB: "yess...hah) Im really confused..my face is red like a tomato! #^^# but still, you had a nice dreams! ;)"
ME: Indeed I did, I'm looking for an excitement like this soon with you, tomato (anchoring attempt) xx
HB: "haha don't be too harmful ;*"
ME: "I'm quite dangerous ;*"
HB: "ahahahahaha omg, maybe ;) but I don't know you well yet..;*"
ME: oh geez, what were you thinking.
HB: Nothing, I didn't mean anything special ;) xxx

this was my first attempt to sext, from which I got LMR, I think
Author:  skills360 [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 4:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
I would not recommend sexting with a virgin or fucking a virgin(drama down the line), but is my opinion, i teach sexting in this post:

the-skills-secrets-to-text-game-vt138170.html
Hahaha bro, actually I read your post long ago, and I used what you had used, but changed a little..

I thought the texting was going nowhere, so I felt the need for "spicing" it up.
Also I wanted her to think me in a sexual way, so I used your 'hot dream' routine.
The morning after we had made out in the club, I sent these:
Me: "Naughty girl, what were you thinkin' when your hands were all over me last night? (she touched my nipples and chest UNDER the t-shirt)"
HB: "Im shy..I won't tell you ;* muah xxx"
Me: "pfft I think I was thinking the same... btw I dreamed of you tonight"
HB: "really? you won't believe it but I saw you in my dreams a few times..#^^#"
Me: "Did you? You were mostly naked in my dreams, but I'm not going to tell you, you will get sooo confused. (she says she gets confused whenever I say something sexual, she's shy.)
HB: Ohhh) Maybe...but I want to know.
Me: "pft okay, it was your choice
I was doing something at home (this part was really blurry, I don't remember what I was doing)
and then I hear a doorbell
I see you in a black dress, with your hair down
You jumped on me and started kissing me like the world's going to end in an hour
and then, again blurry section which I don't remember much
and then we went to the kitchen
I remember kissing your neck, against the wall
we went into my bedroom and you started doing what you did in the club;) hands in the shirt
we took off one by one, and finally you wrapped your legs around me
and I woke up, it was too HOT."
HB: "yess...hah) Im really confused..my face is red like a tomato! #^^# but still, you had a nice dreams! ;)"
ME: Indeed I did, I'm looking for an excitement like this soon with you, tomato (anchoring attempt) xx
HB: "haha don't be too harmful ;*"
ME: "I'm quite dangerous ;*"
HB: "ahahahahaha omg, maybe ;) but I don't know you well yet..;*"
ME: oh geez, what were you thinking.
HB: Nothing, I didn't mean anything special ;) xxx

this was my first attempt to sext, from which I got LMR, I think[/quote]


Well she sees you know as a sexual dude, but tone it down and step up a meet, she is a virgin, is the wrong girls out of all girl to practice sexting... And she is actually being receptive just triggetting anti slut defense... Tone it down, a bit of banter, comfort go for the meet.
Author:  R.C [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 5:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
Me: "Did you? You were mostly naked in my dreams, but I'm not going to tell you, you will get sooo confused. (she says she gets confused whenever I say something sexual, she's shy.)
When you tell a story , you don't start by saying :"Well the main character dies but this is how it happened". You kill the intensity and the audience already knows what to expect.

Telling her she was mostly naked did just that.
Quote:
You jumped on me and started kissing me like the world's going to end in an hour
and then, again blurry section which I don't remember much
and then we went to the kitchen
Nooo,why blurry section ? not so soon. Where's the visual stimulation ? You need to feed her the scenario not just by what you were doing but also how. You took skills' model but this part of his routine wasn't there by accident:
Quote:
I immediately put my arms around you and kissed you back, it was so intense and passion filled, then you kinda jumped/me picking you up, and wrapped your legs around me, then I pushed you up against the wall,

Moving on.
Quote:
I remember kissing your neck, against the wall
Instead of "I remember kissing your neck" go with "I was kissing your neck". I "remember" has somewhat of a apologetic sensation to it. It's like trying to play it safe.

Quote:
we went into my bedroom and you started doing what you did in the club.
It's a dream. Possibilities are endless. Don't settle for bringing what she did in the club into it.

Also give her more to work with. Women are emotional creatures , you need to stimulate her senses and really make her visualize what's going on. Don't give her the full detail though , you're just setting the scene. She'll take it from there:

"We then went into my bedroom. There was music playing in the background and a little dim light over your left shoulder. I immediately started kissing it , working my way up to your neck , and lips. I could feel the excitement all over your skin. You could barely help yourself keep quiet."

See the difference and how it would have much more impact ?



Now her reaction will still be influenced by the fact that she's a virgin , but her mind will work in spite of that fact.
Author:  Negtar [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 7:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Thanks Skills:) I appreciate!
Author:  Negtar [ Fri Nov 01, 2013 7:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Oh man....R.C, that was one hell of a reply, mate!!
Cheers, that definitely summed up my weaknesses in storytelling routine!
Thanks a lot, mate!
Author:  skills360 [ Sat Nov 02, 2013 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
Thanks Skills:) I appreciate!

It was sloppy, but she is interested, just go for the meet...


http://www.theskillsmethod.com/how-to-p ... encounter/
Author:  Negtar [ Sat Nov 02, 2013 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Message I got yesterday..4 in the morning ;) quote on quote

HB: "I drank a bit for this. I've neveer been so nervous around a boy. I like that you are sportive and courageous and smart...next friday you can do whatever you want at me <3 as I said, whatever you want honey ;*"

And I set a date.

Although she's a virgin, she just started to respond back to my toned-down sexting to a degree
for example: "I will turn you on, but I won't tell you how ;*"
Author:  USteve [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 12:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Nice Dude, you are in a good position. Fully prepare yourself to deal with last minute resistance, and make her first time special. Reassure her as well that you will be gentle and it will be special for both of you.
Author:  skills360 [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 3:27 am ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
Message I got yesterday..4 in the morning ;) quote on quote

HB: "I drank a bit for this. I've neveer been so nervous around a boy. I like that you are sportive and courageous and smart...next friday you can do whatever you want at me <3 as I said, whatever you want honey ;*"

And I set a date.

Although she's a virgin, she just started to respond back to my toned-down sexting to a degree
for example: "I will turn you on, but I won't tell you how ;*"
If you into chessy texting lines use the ones here, the ones you are using are pretty silly, she just eat them up cause she likes you:

sexting-vt169964.html
Author:  R.C [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 9:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Quote:
HB: "I drank a bit for this. I've neveer been so nervous around a boy. I like that you are sportive and courageous and smart...next friday you can do whatever you want at me <3 as I said, whatever you want honey ;*"

Hahahahah. My man !
Author:  Negtar [ Sun Nov 03, 2013 12:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: SEXTING diffidulties..
Thanks guys, it was one hell of advice from all of you)
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