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Author:  angch [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 1:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Dilemma, Help me..
This is how it actually goes.

I've got to know this girl from the club. Managed to hook onto her and managed to make out with her. She also mentioned to me that she recently broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years.

After the night. she been treating me weirdly. like disinterest in messaging and also left the country for study, she also made clear that she's not looking for a relationship at the moment and wouldn't mind me being as her friend.

i'm actually really into her, wanting to win her so badly. but at the same time i understand the fact that she just broke up and at the healing stage. she will be back at december. and I'm in a dilemma what should I do to make thing happen from here.

any advice peeps?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 2:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
She's out of country. And acting disinterest... seems fairly loud and clear that she's unavailable.

Mentally and physically.

When she gets back hit her up - in the meantime you need to find some local prospects.
Author:  Xoved [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 4:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
This actually happened to me once, you can turn the case into sex directly by the time she comes.

Many people will disagree with this, but it worked out for me...Keep in touch with her while she is out of the country, talk with her often and try to strike up to dirty talk/sex talk. She'll come back to you wanting sex after she returns and DO IT on the first day she comes.

If she kept being dis-interested during your text-talk, just ignore her and next her until she comes back.
Author:  Alex Gordon [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 8:54 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
Quote:
This is how it actually goes.

I've got to know this girl from the club. Managed to hook onto her and managed to make out with her. She also mentioned to me that she recently broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years.

After the night. she been treating me weirdly. like disinterest in messaging and also left the country for study, she also made clear that she's not looking for a relationship at the moment and wouldn't mind me being as her friend.

i'm actually really into her, wanting to win her so badly. but at the same time i understand the fact that she just broke up and at the healing stage. she will be back at december. and I'm in a dilemma what should I do to make thing happen from here.

any advice peeps?
give her some time, and dont press to much.
Author:  angch [ Wed Oct 30, 2013 6:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
Thanks for advice people. Any more help? Would like to compile a list of advice before I start making anymove aat the moment.
Author:  angch [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 1:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
Here's a update. She actually dropped me a text last night and asked me how is my sickness going on.

I replied her in a funny manner. And also asking about her, how's school/exam etc. Ended up no reply.

Did she actually dropped a IOI and playing hard to get? Don't understand this game at the moment.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 3:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
She started acting weird because YOU started acting weird. Women are reactions to us, and I can already see how you went all love strong after one make out.

The guy that gets the girl doesn't think anything they do is "no big deal" until the girl start trying to make him feel like its a big deal. You made the kiss into a big deal; she didn't. Thats nothing to talk about. Chill out.. You can snag someone better in the next month; she'll come running when you do.
Author:  TheFury [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
Quote:
This is how it actually goes.

I've got to know this girl from the club. Managed to hook onto her and managed to make out with her. She also mentioned to me that she recently broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years.

After the night. she been treating me weirdly. like disinterest in messaging and also left the country for study, she also made clear that she's not looking for a relationship at the moment and wouldn't mind me being as her friend.

i'm actually really into her, wanting to win her so badly. but at the same time i understand the fact that she just broke up and at the healing stage. she will be back at december. and I'm in a dilemma what should I do to make thing happen from here.

any advice peeps?
You have oneitis. She is not interested. A makeout at a club means very little. Sorry man. Move on.
Author:  R.C [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 3:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
Quote:
This is how it actually goes.

I've got to know this girl from the club. Managed to hook onto her and managed to make out with her. She also mentioned to me that she recently broke up with a boyfriend of 3 years.

After the night. she been treating me weirdly. like disinterest in messaging and also left the country for study, she also made clear that she's not looking for a relationship at the moment and wouldn't mind me being as her friend.

i'm actually really into her, wanting to win her so badly. but at the same time i understand the fact that she just broke up and at the healing stage. she will be back at december. and I'm in a dilemma what should I do to make thing happen from here.

any advice peeps?
The best way to go through the healing stage is by meeting new people :D.

Anyway , this situation wouldn't be hard to manage except for one really crucial factor here. She's out of reach , and by that I mean out of country.

I'm guessing you're having some issues in the abundance department since you got so hooked on a random club make-out.
Trust me , if you go out tomorrow and repeat the same scenario with some different girl , you'll forget all about this one.


Bottom line is this:
Your "relationship" with this girl turned LD before it even became a relationship. This is as dead as a dead end gets.
Author:  detox75 [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 4:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Dilemma, Help me..
The most annoying thing about the OP's post is listening to what this chick said about "healing stage" and giving it any credence. Then about half the responders buy into this suspect analysis and base their advice on it. Have you ever heard of a rebound? Do you think she is just using this as an excuse? The truth is you dont know, stop listening to one random point a woman say and changing your game, reactions, and activities, based on it, pay attention to how they behave not what they say.

As one guy said, spend a small amount of effort pinging her with occasional funny/game/value texts then meet up with her when shes logistically available. Other then that expend no effort and pursue other woman in the meantime. She seems like a weak prospect.
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