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| Author: | USteve [ Sun Oct 27, 2013 11:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Text Game, Do I initiate conversation again or wait it out? |
I made a great impression on a girl, we hung out once and then shortly later she moved to a different country to study. We have text and Facebook chatted only a small amount in the 3/4 months since we last saw each other, about 6 times. I have a feeling the initial attraction is fading, which is disappointing as I am confident something good could have happened if she didn't move abroad. She is coming back to town in 2 weeks time, the last time we chatted was 2 weeks ago and she agreed to hang out again. I am not sure what to do now though. Do I initiate conversation on Facebook and try to build attraction again before she arrives in an attempt to make sure she doesn't flake. Or do I just not say anything until she comes back into town and risk there being little attraction and her flaking? Or do I do something completely different? |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 8:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB8 coming back to town, not sure attraction still there |
Send a FB message off a week or something before she leaves but dont push for a meet until she is actually back. Pretty simple situation really just regame her. |
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| Author: | USteve [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: HB8 coming back to town, not sure attraction still there |
Quote: Send a FB message off a week or something before she leaves but dont push for a meet until she is actually back. Pretty simple situation really just regame her.
Sorry, I didn't quite understand you. Are you saying to wait until she comes back to town and then contact her then?
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text Game, Do I initiate conversation again or wait it o |
He's saying send her a message in a week --- a week before she comes. Re-open and re-game. |
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| Author: | USteve [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:33 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text Game, Do I initiate conversation again or wait it o |
Quote: He's saying send her a message in a week --- a week before she comes.
Thanks, I dont know when she is back in town though, 3 weeks ago was when we last talked and she said she was "coming home in a few weeks". She also mentioned she wouldn't be here for the town fair which is in 2.5 weeks away from today. So I guess from this I can speculate she is coming sometime before then, or shortly after then. So does this mean I should re-open her now or still wait a little longer to see if she is coming before the town fair?
Re-open and re-game. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Mon Oct 28, 2013 7:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text Game, Do I initiate conversation again or wait it o |
This is a low probability event. Why not focus on girls who actually live in your country? I'd try to re-initiate as close to when she is coming as possible, or even just contact her when she is here. If you don't know when she will be here, just ask her!! |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Tue Oct 29, 2013 1:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Text Game, Do I initiate conversation again or wait it o |
Just keep in vague contact as you have been until she is back, but don't start suggesting meets until she is back in town and settledvin. |
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