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Author:  durdan [ Wed Oct 23, 2013 11:29 pm ]
Post subject:  "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

This is what she wrote me:

"Well actually this is kind of awkward but since you've been away I started dating someone more seriously so I can't really do that anymore"


I travel 5 days per week so it's tough to make our schedules work. I have the rest of this week open and want to see her at least one more night. What would be the best response to this text where the endgame is a date within the next couple days?

Author:  Rough Operator [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 12:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

Probably the best response is something like "Ok, I can respect that, I enjoyed our time together and all the best!"

Dunno what you could do to get one more date tbh, and even then she's with someone new.

Author:  durdan [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 12:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

She's nothing special, just a fuck buddy.

But the sexual chemistry was great and the fact that she's unavailable now makes her much more interesting.

Don't really care either way, just looking for a good starting strategy.

Author:  CountRedRover [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 12:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

Just reply with
"Oh thank god"
-She's setting the frame that you should be upset. By saying this you are conveying that it doesn't bother you, in fact it's great that she's doing that. So the next time the guy she is seeing starts reacting more emotionally towards her, in her head she'll remember "Gee, durdan wasn't an emotional bitch, I should be with him".
-Also make it seems like your having a great time without her. For example update your facebook or whatever with pics of you hanging with more people (girls), and other shit. Go to the safeway parking lot and take a selfie with a nice sports car saying "do you like?" and upload that on fb so she'll and everyone else will see that.
-Fuck with her emotionally; dont text her for a few days, grab a pair of crutches, aim your cell at your feet, lift one leg up, take a picture and snapchat it to her saying "car accident.." she'll be ringing your cell for hours.

Author:  vicparkguy83 [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 1:02 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

Be as neutral and normal as possible, just say "oh yea cool hope it works out" blah just act like a friend would. Keep in vagie contqct send a stupid message on facebook once a month or something. New guy might not last very long and when it dies and she wants a rebound u will be the first she'll think of.

I do this and its amazing how often 3-6 months down the track they send you a message begging you to come fuck them.

Author:  Brantley [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 1:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

Quote:
Just reply with
"Oh thank god"
-She's setting the frame that you should be upset. By saying this you are conveying that it doesn't bother you, in fact it's great that she's doing that. So the next time the guy she is seeing starts reacting more emotionally towards her, in her head she'll remember "Gee, durdan wasn't an emotional bitch, I should be with him".
-Also make it seems like your having a great time without her. For example update your facebook or whatever with pics of you hanging with more people (girls), and other shit. Go to the safeway parking lot and take a selfie with a nice sports car saying "do you like?" and upload that on fb so she'll and everyone else will see that.
-Fuck with her emotionally; dont text her for a few days, grab a pair of crutches, aim your cell at your feet, lift one leg up, take a picture and snapchat it to her saying "car accident.." she'll be ringing your cell for hours.

People, don't be stupid. I have guys on my Facebook who are try hards and do stupid shit like this. It's so obvious and makes them look like weak sauce. Be natural, be yourself, don't lie, don't front. It's very east to peg the people who do. And it's also very unattractive.

Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Thu Oct 24, 2013 4:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: "can't do that anymore" text- How should I respond?

Just be real bro "Hope all is well!"

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