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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 5:13 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When a girl flakes. Need help |
Hello everyone. I'm quite new to the whole PU thing. I'm currently studying in the UK. I'm 22 had 2 years long relationship when was 18. My sexual experience is quite limited. In other words a complete newbie. When it comes to PUA I have read the Game, watched some videos ... Mystery method... and basically that's all However, few days ago I met that HB10 at careers presentation at Uni. She is half Marrocan half Egyptian, the perfect chick. In fact I was with few collages and she approached us. Based on her body language IMO she looked extremely desperate. Intially , she started chitchatting with my buddy who is actually having a gf. Shortly after that, I kind of strategically moved in front of him. So we met and started chatting I tried not to behave stupidly and come off as a wierd as*****e. Tried to maintain a positive attitude and good body language. After few mins chat, my buddies left me and I was alone with her. I asked her for FB and she replied .'well I can give you my number, my family is quite strict so I try to avoid fb' Anyway, I took her number chatted for another few mins and left. She told me that she lives pretty close to the university so I can call her and have a coffee with her. On the next day, I decided to call her it was about 5 pm. She answered and said 'I am a bit far away out of the city. However I can meet you within one - one and a half hour, let's meet by the train station if it is OK?' And I said well I have some things to do here(at uni), but that sounds perfect to me, so see you at the train station at 7 o'clock. 40 after I called her I decided to call her again and be like 'I'm quite busy here doing some important things so I might be late 10 15 mins (The aim was to some sort of tell her that she isn't that important and I am not that desperate.) So I call her..... And wow her phone was switched off.(what a surprise) Anyway I sent her a msg 'Hey. Im with the course rep board. We have a meeting so it might take a bit longer. In case I happen to be late it won't be more than 10-15 mins. M.' (Kind of DHV) However - no response. I decided not to call her again till the time of the date. So I went to the train station it was on my way back anyway. ... Time passed . I called her again... Tel switched off. Waited for about 10 15 mins . She didn't turn up. So I left and went home. What do you think I did wrong. Obviously she was quite desperate. And I didn't want to delay things. My plan was to have some coffee first , then probably some dinner (into another bar/restaurant) Simply, to attend few places so she can feel like she has known me for a long period of time. Finally, finish with some red wine and head to her place as she lives alone and close to my uni,so I can come up with something like ' I have lectures tomorrow, as I life quite far I better stay at your place tonight. Hahaha So guys, what do u think went wrong? Shall I call her again after 5 days and be like ' Hey sorry I was qutlite busy so I couldn't make it. How r u, How are things going... Blablabla. In fact, Im not really disappointed, I just wanna figure out what I have done wrong and how to correct it. Thank you. |
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| Author: | Natty [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 7:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl flakes. Need help |
I'm usually the pessimistic type and would tell you she isn't interested, but in your case I have to say that something must have actually came up on her end, and he'd phone might have died. She was very forward about meeting up, so that lowers the likelihood of a proper flake by quite a bit. I'd call her and make sure she's ok. |
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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Sun Oct 20, 2013 1:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl flakes. Need help |
Okay fair enough. What do u guys think of calling her. Shall I do it after 4-5 days, now, or later? Thanks for your opinions. |
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| Author: | Monsignor Crisanto [ Sun Oct 20, 2013 9:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl flakes. Need help |
At this point in my PUA journey, when a girl flakes on me, I don't call nor text. If you have been giving girls maximum possible fun during their interactions with you, they will text or call within 2 weeks time. When they do, continue the interaction like nothing happened. Do NOT bring up the flaking incident EVER. The power of the free sample and takeaway gets you lots of pussy. |
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| Author: | zwiggelbig [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 1:29 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl flakes. Need help |
''Wow you could have just told me that you went out on a secret date with Bradd Pitt yesterday! '' I had alot of fun with the cofee all by myself'' '' Good thing you wernt their yesterday at 7! Wow all of sudden 2 midgets come in and starting to fight with eachother! And things really got out of hand! The police even showed up'' ''You really missed out on something yesterday! ( lol make the rest here up yourself I suck at this ) All of sudden Jack Sparrow came walking in asking for a bottle of rum. But they did not had rum so he stole my coffee and ran away. |
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| Author: | IaintPerfect [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: When a girl flakes. Need help |
Quote: ''Wow you could have just told me that you went out on a secret date with Bradd Pitt yesterday!
'' I had alot of fun with the cofee all by myself'' '' Good thing you wernt their yesterday at 7! Wow all of sudden 2 midgets come in and starting to fight with eachother! And things really got out of hand! The police even showed up'' ''You really missed out on something yesterday! ( lol make the rest here up yourself I suck at this ) All of sudden Jack Sparrow came walking in asking for a bottle of rum. But they did not had rum so he stole my coffee and ran away. Well that's kind of cool lines, but I am still not quite sure how to proceed, whether to drop her a text with a line like these. Or call her in few days and pretend that I was quite busy so that I even don't bother of what happend and not ever mention the incident. |
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