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| Author: | hankypanky [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 1:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
There's a girl who has a boyfriend and before she spoke of her boyfriend, we were getting on really well. Then she told me about her boyfriend and i backed off. She still talks to me but I've stopped contact. What do i do? |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 2:40 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Well u kind of messed up the momentum when u backed off. If a girl tells me she has a boyfriend after she has shown me ioi's, that only means i have boundries to deal with. So in other words, she is DTF and its only matter of me doing some DHV and escalating to that f close |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 5:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
I think you are fine. Getting girls with boyfriends is hard to do... I've said this 100x on these boards, it is MUCH HARDER TO GET A GIRL WITH A BOYFRIEND THAN A SINGLE GIRL. The reason there is so much bf destroyer shit and all this nonsense about how easy it is to get girls with boyfriends is to help PUA's sell seduction products because "how can I a girl with a boyfriend" is a REALLY COMMON QUESTION (evidenced by the fact I have to answer it 10x a day on this board 
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| Author: | Pikeman85 [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 5:48 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Typically a girl will only drop her boyfriend for you if you offer her some greater value and she's bored/looking to leave. If she's super sexually attracted but still likes her boyfriend, she's way more likely to cheat but not leave him. And only if she's sure you know your role. |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 12:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Lots of chicks cheat on their boyfriends all the time. My ex's best friend was in an LTR and she'd go out every weekend and bang a new guy, and when i was in my early 20's it seemed like every second chick I hooked up with had a boyfriend. Saying chicks with boyfriends are harder to get is only half true, SOME girls with boyfriends are harder to get, others are just as easy as single chicks. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 1:03 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Quote: Lots of chicks cheat on their boyfriends all the time. My ex's best friend was in an LTR and she'd go out every weekend and bang a new guy, and when i was in my early 20's it seemed like every second chick I hooked up with had a boyfriend. Saying chicks with boyfriends are harder to get is only half true, SOME girls with boyfriends are harder to get, others are just as easy as single chicks.
by definition if some are harder to get and the rest are = to single chicks, then as a set, girls with boyfriends are harder to get.
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 1:14 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
If you average it out yes, but just because has a bf doesn't mean she IS harder it just mean she MIGHT be harder. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 3:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Quote: If you average it out yes, but just because has a bf doesn't mean she IS harder it just mean she MIGHT be harder.
Usually it's harder. Remember, this is a girl who said she has a boyfriend, not just a girl who has a boyfriend. I've hooked up with many girls who have boyfriends, but they hide the boyfriend from me.
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 8:11 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
You said a few posts ago its harder to get a chick with a boyfriend, you didn't mention how thats discovered. If she pointlessly tells you, yes thats a bad sign, but we're talking girls who actually have boyfriends, not girls who randomly say it for no reason. |
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| Author: | hankypanky [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 10:50 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Quote: You said a few posts ago its harder to get a chick with a boyfriend, you didn't mention how thats discovered. If she pointlessly tells you, yes thats a bad sign, but we're talking girls who actually have boyfriends, not girls who randomly say it for no reason.
the girl didn't tell me she has a boyfriend randomly. She told me she is "in love with her boyfriend". That's when i nexted her. I've discovered that a few women i dated see me as a rebound guy. I want to be the main guy not a damn rebound guy. |
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| Author: | TheFury [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 2:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Quote: You said a few posts ago its harder to get a chick with a boyfriend, you didn't mention how thats discovered. If she pointlessly tells you, yes thats a bad sign, but we're talking girls who actually have boyfriends, not girls who randomly say it for no reason.
both are harder .. one is much harder...
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Sat Oct 19, 2013 3:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Ok are you saying that ALL girls with boyfriends are harder? |
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| Author: | Darkie [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 1:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
Quote: Quote: You said a few posts ago its harder to get a chick with a boyfriend, you didn't mention how thats discovered. If she pointlessly tells you, yes thats a bad sign, but we're talking girls who actually have boyfriends, not girls who randomly say it for no reason.
the girl didn't tell me she has a boyfriend randomly. She told me she is "in love with her boyfriend". That's when i nexted her. I've discovered that a few women i dated see me as a rebound guy. I want to be the main guy not a damn rebound guy. |
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| Author: | AFCToTheMax [ Mon Oct 21, 2013 2:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: if a girl has a boyfriend but still talks to u..... |
I've seen this issue the 3rd time today on this forum. Why is it so difficult to find a girl who doesn't say that she has a boyfriend ? I mean people here approach and talk to more than one girl in their lifetime right ? There are 100 reasons why she will tell you she has a boyfriend. In the majority of the cases you don't have a chance. OP the girl told you she loves her boyfriend. Why waste your time ? And if you are a rebound that means you went after a girl who had a boyfriend at the time. Maybe if you wanna be the main guy go for single girls ??? |
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