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Author:  Xoved [ Thu Oct 17, 2013 9:54 pm ]
Post subject:  URGENT CASE
Tomorrow's the day.

Here's my story with this girl, just making sure I'll act correctly this time:

She's been my friend for around 8 months, during the last month from these 8, we started getting really close and told everything from secrets to non-secrets to each other and she started having trouble with her ex (he was my friend) and we were drunk one night and reached level 3 in sex in a bathroom at some random pub (rubbing under, fast bj, kissing, etc...) but no sex. She started telling me that it happened and we were drunk, then she asked me "wonder if it's going to happen again tonight" and it happened again, still no sex. She traveled for 2 months, we started chatting the whole day from good morning to good night for 2 straight months. She planned anal sex, we agreed on it (I was BETA big time here). When she came back, I was in a state of confusion, I started getting jealous over her, first night no sex, just fingering. My jealousy showed SO HARD and I told her that I got jealous over her. She said if there is one guy she would date, that would be me, but she didn't want any relationships. So a week passed, I got really pissed off and told her that I love her and I would protect her, big time beta moves. I LITERALLY begged for a chance for a relationship. With this, she decided to stop every single thing between us, so basically friendzoned with no sexual benefits anymore.

I cut contact with her completely, not even seeing her. I acted as the biggest asshole by replying with "Yeah" "ok" "no" and other one word replies. Every single day she asked about me, I told her I'm busy with my family and business. It's been around 25 days that I last saw her. She got fed up and cut off contact with me for the last 3 days, but yesterday, something odd happened. She messaged me that she came to my town but she was drunk (with her friends, cruising). We chatted for a bit today and she was literally sending paragraphs about what she is doing with her life and I kept my answers simple, a maximum of 2 lines. She wrote a lot, literally 20-25 messages before I can even type a response.

So I ended the conversation by saying "gtg family time, I'll talk to you later", she said ok. Around 10 minutes later she messaged me "hey, you wanna go movies and a restaurant tomorrow? Finally for you". I replied with "sure thing, I'll talk to you tomorrow when I wake up".

Now I backed off for 25 days, and I changed BIG TIME. I received a job, got a car, and started acting way too alpha.

So I was thinking. We meet tomorrow.
The problem is, I do not want to lose this girl, but I'll DEFINITELY escalate.
I was thinking of watching for her signals FIRST, then initiating.

So what do you guys think of this case? Is it a successful one?
Do you think she'd want to have a sexual relationship with me again?

Even though I give a lot of advice, sometimes, I feel like I need your help guys.

Thanks a lot in advance!
Author:  Natty [ Thu Oct 17, 2013 11:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: URGENT CASE
I'm lost, but....i say give her the d.
Author:  CountRedRover [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 7:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: URGENT CASE
You were being really needy for sex in the beginning and she didn't like that. But what she did learn was that "you wanted it". So now she's trying to get you wrapped around her finger where all she has to do is just tease you saying "I might fuck you" and she knows you'll come rushing to her. Keep that in mind. Don't let her have you on a string like that.

My advice would be tease the fuck out of her during the movies. Find a place to sit where no ones looking; wear basketball shorts to the movies. When you guys are watching it put her hand on your crotch and just have her start feeling you up. Whisper in her ears "I can't wait to fuck the shit out of you (and other shit you want to do to her)". She'll be fucking turned on (and will you lol_. Then wait a while after your dick is rock hard, take her hand and tell her "Too bad I'm gonna make you wait ;)" and put it back on her lap. She'll be pissed cause she wants your dick and your not giving it to her. After maybe 10 more minutes do the same thing again but tell her you want her to suck your dick. But here's the key. Tell her she only gets 5 sucks. so she better make them count. Hell, even grab her by her hair for the last one. She'll be wanting to fuck the hell out of you by the time the movie is over.

If you can't escalate in the theater, just have her give you head when you're driving=> When you guys make out just move her hand to your dick and tell her to suck it. If she says no (which she might with a grin), PLAY IT COOL. DO NOT BE NEEDY FOR IT.

Hope it all works out; Let us know how it goes!
Author:  Xoved [ Fri Oct 18, 2013 11:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: URGENT CASE
I see your point here.
The problem is I want to persist, I want to make her want everything more. But I'm not sure if she wants it or not. She already friendzoned me when I released my emotions on her, and that's when I walked away and ignored her.

I'm going to start a new page with her today. She'll notice the change and she'll like it.
I will be teasing her badly, in a playful way. If she responds accordingly like she always does, I'm not going to save the sex for another time, going to do it the same day.
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