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Author:  Negtar [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 12:52 am ]
Post subject:  Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
Hi guys
On last Friday night out, this HB8 and I Kiss-closed.
However, as I mentioned on my previous field report, I made a terrible mistake of skipping
A2 phase and escalating too quickly, which brought about "buyer's remorse." I think I have
dealt with the buyers remorse quite well, and from tomorrow on wards, I am starting all the way from A2 phase again.

This morning, I opened my mailbox and found out one of my mates (he's very rich) sent me an invitation to the Huge Holloween party. He basically rented the whole Old Fortress(it looks like an old castle inside) and the Winery, and basically cool-as-fuck-socially-proven Ladies and gents are coming. I would love to invite this HB8 girl to this party, and it's going to convey social proof, too.

But I've been thinking how I should deliver my intent:P

I've been thinking of generic questions like:
"I'm invited to this Holloween party, would you like to come with me?"
but for me it kind of sounds lame and needy...

I've also thought of..:
"There's going to be a sick Holloween ball, and Imma take you there"
and it sounds too much like a 'douche' and try-hard.

The more I think about it, the weirder it gets..I'm completely lost in what way I should invite her out without sounding needy and douche-like. How would you guys approach this sorta problem??
Author:  Gradi0 [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
you: What are your plans on [insert day here]?

her: [if she's interested: she'll say 'nothing', mention something about the evening being free, or 'I don't know']

you: Sweet, we're going to go to a halloween party. I'll pick you up at 9:00.
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 4:32 am ]
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" Halloween party on ......day. I'm taking a date, you down?". Then make sure she knows its a plus 1 event and she needs to be sure she can go or cancel in advance so you can round up another girl.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 6:35 am ]
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Quote:
" Halloween party on ......day. I'm taking a date, you down?". Then make sure she knows its a plus 1 event and she needs to be sure she can go or cancel in advance so you can round up another girl.

This ^^^

Dude, you're over thinking alot. Quit worrying about all the A2, S5, D7 shit. We're not playing battleship... If the girl likes you, she likes you. Fuck her as soon as you can so she likes you more. Don't over complicate it.
Author:  Tr@veler [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 12:34 pm ]
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What majikal said. If she likes you she likes you. Just be upfront and say "I'm going to xxx, you should join me." If she's interested she will say yes, if not she will make up an excuse or ignore you.
Author:  Negtar [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 1:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
Quote:
you: What are your plans on [insert day here]?

her: [if she's interested: she'll say 'nothing', mention something about the evening being free, or 'I don't know']

you: Sweet, we're going to go to a halloween party. I'll pick you up at 9:00.
This sounds awesome and smooth, I might try this one out:)

Yes, that's true. I would also like to know how I must react to her giving excuses (just in case), although I am pretty sure she'll join me.
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:09 pm ]
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So you will know, girls love going to social events, especially those that require any type of dress code whether its costume, formal, or togas. I would leverage that instead of making it so casual. Girls like to feel special.
Author:  Il-Cavalieri [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 3:31 pm ]
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I'm with Majik, too.

Or any of the variants:

"Got an invite for a party day X at Place. Wanna come?"

"Day X I'm going to a party at Place. Care to join me?"

etc.
Author:  Negtar [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
Quote:
So you will know, girls love going to social events, especially those that require any type of dress code whether its costume, formal, or togas. I would leverage that instead of making it so casual. Girls like to feel special.
I am going to ;) it's going to be very formal. Since it's Holloween, we all can put up make ups, have masks or put hats, but wearing Tuxedos and Dresses is a must.

How do you think of asking as such..:

"Any plan for Halloween?"
HB: "No" or "I don't know"
"Great, I received an invitation for this formal and grand Holloween party that one of my buddies is throwing. I can bring one guest. Are you down for it?"
Author:  Natty [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 6:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
There you go, sir.
Author:  Negtar [ Tue Oct 15, 2013 9:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Inviting a Girl: How to invite a girl without NEEDINESS.
Cheers for all the help!)
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