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| Author: | Redfire [ Sat Oct 12, 2013 3:35 am ] |
| Post subject: | Looking for advice |
Hello I go to school with this really attractive girl. We started talking a bit on fb a bit, however I had a rough week and I accidentally became stressed out and emotional with her. (I was really busy so I bet the messages came across either weird or panicky). Knowing I was losing control of myself, I decided to take action. I told her I was going to unfriend her. She messaged back with about 5 lines of advice and I just said cool and I unfriended her. Instantly my head was a lot clearer and I was able to sort through everything that caused me trouble throughout the week. Two days after, within the first 1-2 minutes of seeing her, I looked her in the eye and said "Im sorry". She said it was cool. This was about a week ago. Since then I have not talked to her. (Making a bit of space between us to let the dust settle.) Normally I see the girl on Monday, but next week is a holiday Monday and I will not be able to see her. In fact, the timing works out that I will not be able to see her again for 2-3 weeks. So it feels like the only time I can make a move is this Monday coming up. It is a holiday we share so I am assuming she will have spare time. I think this is a good time to make a move. I am thinking I should message her on fb early in the morning for a casual, friendly coffee... Simply, 1 "Coffee? (234)432-3424" (She doesnt have my number but she would have it now, and in the future.) 2 "Coffee?" Edit 3: Message her the night before, on Sunday. "Coffee tomorrow?" Of course, just moving on is as option too, but I feel like I want to try harder this time. Edit: Thanks! Any help would be really appreciated. Notes - I do not have a lot of rapport with this girl (Neutral) - I have a good relationship with one of her friends, but "this girl" is smart and may see it as a "just trying to be a friend to get to her move" - I feel I appear confident most of the time in class |
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| Author: | Redfire [ Sat Oct 12, 2013 9:34 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Looking for advice |
TL: DR Accidentally showed a stressed out version of myself to a girl, unfriended her on fb to give myself space. I worked everything out and now I want to start talking to her again. On this holiday Monday I will send her a casual message in the morning; "Coffee?" Sounds good? |
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